New Years Day came and went. I struggled with what my resolutions would be; I decided that I didn't want to follow the trend on Facebook, "New year, New me".

I just want to be better, not new. So I decided to focus on a major weakness of mind: not taking crap from people.

I knew this resolution would be challenging. Throughout the past several years I have remained in one sided friendships, abusive relationships, and I learned to shut up because I knew that no one was listening.

I was raised to turn my cheek and be the bigger person, but I neglected the self respect involved in doing so. This year I want to focus on self respect and learning when enough is enough.

I vow to not let anyone belittle me or talk at me.

I vow to hold my head high.

I vow to speak up and raise my voice.

I vow to grab opportunities.

I vow to only stay in relationships that are healthy.

I vow to see myself as fit for anything I want out of life.