Dear Sister-In-Law,
As I'm sure you know, my little brother is one of the most important people in my life. I know he's not actually that little, as he is a lot taller and bigger than I, but he will always be my baby brother. It's not just me who thinks of him in that light, you'll realize when he's around our family, he will always be the baby.
As the baby, he's a little bit spoiled. Or a lot bit spoiled. He knows it, but it doesn't ever stop his most annoying habits. He is as stubborn as they come, and will always think he is right. He will ask for a lot and not always give a lot back. He'll argue with you on almost anything. He doesn't like being bossed around. He will throw a fit when he's wrong or disappointed. You'll often question if your man is actually just a five-year-old in a grown up body. He probably is. He is sarcastic, he is curious, and he's still learning to think before he speaks.
You need to be one hell of a woman to put up with him. Patience has to be your most notable character trait, for sure. But, there's also a lot more you need to be the right fit for him.
You need to be kind. At his roots, he is kind. Put him in a situation where he can help and you will see it. Watch him interact with small animals or small children. He is gentle and sweet with things that need care.
You need to be adventurous. He takes a little bit of pushing to try something out, but he usually likes new things. Your dates need to be different and spontaneous. Keep him engaged and have fun with him and his heart will be yours.
You need to be able to joke around. The sarcasm he dishes out sometimes can actually be funny. Laugh with him and he'll feel better about himself. Laugh at him to knock him down a peg or two when he needs it. He'll always forgive you for poking fun at him, I've been poking fun his entire life.
More than anything, you need to be loving. He's a big teddy bear who always needs a hug. When he jumps on you in the morning, he just wants your attention. He needs to feel wanted. Hold his hand and kiss his face. Show him he's needed and he'll reciprocate.
When in doubt with him, give me a call. He's one of my favorite people and one of my best friends, and if you can't figure him out, I probably can. I wish you a lifetime of love and happiness. And if you ever hurt him in any way, you'll get one angry visit from me.
Love Always,
His Big Sister
