"She doesn't belong to anyone and I think that's the most divine thing about her. She's found love within herself and she's complete alone."
This goes out to all the girls who loved with all they had and yet it still wasn't enough. This goes out to all the girls who had to find themselves again. This goes out to all the girls who can't easily be broken...this one is for you.
I know what it is like to go through heartbreak; to love someone so much and give them all of your time and energy. You dedicated your whole life around that one person and you started slowly losing yourself in the process of loving someone else with your whole being. It was not healthy, it emotionally and physically drained you. Because when you love someone like that and do not take the time to focus on yourself do you truly even know who you are anymore? Do you still remember how to be yourself on your own and be happy? And while doing all of this, giving that person all your time and all your energy, you were still left heartbroken in the end. It doesn't really sound fair does it?
Well, I have got some good news for you.
So keep your head up buttercup.
Right now, I know it might really really suck, but like most things, time heals all wounds. So, it might not be tomorrow, next week, or even next month, but slowly and surely you will start rebuilding that independent person that you once were. You will start smiling by yourself again. You will find your own reasons to be happy. You will do what you love again, without any hesitation. You won't have to worry about anyone else, but yourself. You can go on all those adventures that you were never able to before. You can treat yourself, wine and dine yourself. Girl, be that better version of yourself that you could not be before, the you that you wouldn't allow yourself the time to be.
Take random road trips with your friends. Get dressed up and go to that really expensive restaurant. Go to that 6:30 a.m. workout class and kick some butt and make a new you. Go to the movies alone (sometimes it is more fun that way). Go downtown with your girlfriends - I promise it is a fun time!
Remember, now is not the time to look for something new with someone else, but to focus on you! Also, first and foremost seek the Lord with your heart. He is always close to the broken hearted. He will bring you peace and comfort. Good things will come into your life, you might think it is random, but it is all in God's perfect timing.
Wear that smile big and proud. Love others and most importantly love yourself. Be you again.
