To The Friend Who Blows Me Off For Her Boyfriend | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Swoon

To The Friend Who Blows Me Off For Her Boyfriend, I Miss You But I'm Done Putting In Effort

It's so funny how the times have changed.

952
To The Friend Who Blows Me Off For Her Boyfriend, I Miss You But I'm Done Putting In Effort

It pisses me off in all honesty. You live with him. You see him literally every second of every day. I have tried three times to make plans with you since we've graduated and you blow me off for him every time.

Seriously? Not only have you blown me off, but you also haven't even bothered to try and make plans for another day. You don't even talk to me anymore. What did I do? Did I say something? Did I NOT say something? I put in the effort all the time to try and continue to be friends but you obviously don't want that. Your entire high school career revolves around him now. You have to ask him for permission to hang out with other people. You changed your entire life goals for a stupid boy you met in high school. What happens if something changes? What happens if not everything goes as planned?

I miss hanging out with you. I miss laughing with you. There are other people other than your boyfriend who want to hang out with you and see you. I'm done putting in an effort because it's very apparent you have nothing to do with me.

Follow Swoon on Instagram.

Report this Content
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

736113
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

638191
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

The Importance Of Being A Good Person

An open letter to the good-hearted people.

933351
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments