“Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.” –Mark Twain
One of my best friends is not close to me in age. But, this never seems to be a problem. Sure, we may be in different stages in our lives sometimes, but that just means that we both have an outside perspective on what's going on. Age doesn't determine maturity. Experiences determine maturity, and everyone goes through different things.
Now I have been on both sides of the spectrum. I've had friends 2-3 years older than me, and I've had friends 2-3 years younger than me. Some of my fondest memories have been with people who are not my age. This has allowed me to grow as a person in many ways. I've learned and I've taught. Plus, one of the greatest feelings is making an impact on people. Having a younger friend definitely allows this to be something that is possible. I truly believe that I've been able to take the experiences I've lived, and help my best friend flourish in any and every way possible for her. Being a role model for someone is pretty freakin' cool, no matter what anyone says. And, when you're older, you get to say things such as "when I was your age," and that's funny as hell.
Being the older friend for sure has it's blessings and it's curses. Since you're older it's assumed you'll be the chauffeur. You have to pick them up in order to get them to do anything. But, that being said, since you're the driver you have control. You get to choose where you eat or hang out, and when you get there. So, I guess that part isn't so bad.
Another reason having a younger friend is cool is because it's simply a friend. Friendship is so important and essential to our well-being. If you can find a friend that you have a good relationship with, who cares about the age difference?
**To my best friend: I am grateful every single day to have such an amazing best friend who doubles as my little "sister." Thank you for keeping me sane, and helping me when I struggle. Thank you for sending me memes all the time, especially when I've had a bad day. Thank you for the countless laughs and memories, they are some that will last me a lifetime.
