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To My Little Sister After Her First Break Up

You know we all have been there.

Emily Filus
Sep 19, 2016
Bloomsburg University
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To My Little Sister After Her First Break Up

Lil Sis,

Take it from me, the one who, according to you, "had boyfriends since fourth grade" (not true). He is not worth the tears and the gallons of ice cream. He is not worth the sadness and the "I miss you" texts. You are so much better than that. Live high school to it's fullest. Make new friends, do something you have never done before, learn something new, don't worry about any boy.

The first break up is hard. Actually the first break up is the worst. You think it's perfect and all is going great and then it hits you like a brick. Be lucky, yours ended smooth. Yes, you might have been blindsided but he didn't leave you for another girl or worse, find his new girl while he was still with you. He will always be your first love and maybe your first kiss but there are so many other fish in the sea, I mean it.

Do you want to get back at him? Don't post anything on social media, don't text him, but show him that you can have the time of your life without him. Be the bubbly person you always are, act like he never happened, be yourself. A breakup does not define who you are. You will find the one who is going to be there for you for the long run, the one who will always have your back, but that time will come when you are ready for it. Spend high school with the girls who were there for you after your break up, the ones who let you have your moment of sadness but then made you move on and forget about him. As mom always says, "Boys will come and go, but your family and friends will always be there."

Love,

Big Sis

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