To My Future Boyfriend
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To My Future Boyfriend

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To My Future Boyfriend,

I would like to start by saying hi, it's nice to finally meet you. Also, where the heck have you been? I swear, I was starting to get worried about you. But I am very glad that you're finally here.

I've had my fair share of poor experiences when it comes to relationships. I've been ghosted more times than I would like to admit, but I think that says more about the guys I've talked to than it says about me as a person. I do have some scars from past relationships, and I'm sorry that my past may cause some problems for you, but I hope it'll all be worth it.

There's a lot I want you to know about me, and I really hope that you are willing to take the time to listen and learn these things. But I guess, if you're not willing to learn those things, you aren't the person who this letter is dedicated to.

I want to start off by saying that if you have a hard time getting me to open up, don't give up. Please, I'm counting on you to prove me wrong. I don't open up right away, because I do indeed have trust issues, but at the same time, I'm also an incredibly open person. Just ask the right questions and be genuinely interested in getting to know me, and I promise you, you won't regret it.

I will make every minute of this relationship worth it. I am loyal and I am loving. I thoroughly enjoy getting to know people and learning what makes them tick. So, I will get to know every last bit of you (whether you like it or not), but I hope that you appreciate my effort. I will get to know what you love, what you hate, what you live every day for, and I will do my best to help you grow.

I am not a crazy girlfriend. All I need is a little bit of time, some love and an honest relationship. You can go out with your friends, I don't need to be with you every waking minute. You can adventure all on your own, but I would love to join you when you'll have me. I promise to never hold you back, because I don't want you to do that to me. I want us to grow and live together not keep each other from living our beautiful lives.

I don't need you. I am independent and I am strong. I by no means need you in my life, but I want you there. Just know that I can accomplish anything on my own. My life is beautiful and I am happy all on my own; you are just an incredible being that I have the privilege of sharing my life with. Now, don't let that discourage you, because although I don't need you, I want you.

I want as much of you as you are willing to give; I want to know your fears, weaknesses, loves, and dreams. But instead, I wait.

Unfortunately, I don't think we've even met yet, but I can't wait to get to know you. I can't wait to grow and experience the world with you. I already know I'm lucky to have you, and I hope you feel the same way about me.

But until then, I'm just working on me. I want to improve myself in all the ways that I can. I will be here making myself the best I can be. I will be here being the happiest that I can be, not waiting for you, but rather ready for you whenever you get here.

I hope to see you soon,

Love, Your Future Girlfriend.

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