To my friend as she plans her special day,

It’s hard to believe that this day has come so quickly.

It feels like just weeks ago we were sitting on one of our beds talking about our “dream wedding” and now we’re planning yours.

Growing up is so weird. In so many ways it feels like we’re leaving a part of our lives behind and moving on, but it’s apparent that those parts of our growing up have lead us to this point.

I’d like to believe that my friendship and support have impacted you in a way that has shown you what you truly deserve, because you have found that kind of support and unconditional love in someone to spend the rest of your life with.

This is such a huge step into adulthood and my heart swells with joy at the thought of you saying, “I do” to the man who is perfect for you.

I wish you absolute happiness and years and years of laughter.

I am so proud of you.

For rising above everything you've been through.

For all that you’ve accomplished.

For all that you’re bound to excel in in the future.

Nothing means more to me than to stand beside you on your big day because I know what a journey it has been for you to get here.

From the first date, to the proposal – through the fights and the make ups – I’ve watched you and your future husband grow into the incredible adults each of you have become.

I have seen you struggle through the tough times and come out stronger.

No relationship is perfect but a great relationship comes from learning how to handle the hard times with mature reasoning – and you’ve shown that.

There will be wonderful moments as well as tough times, but finding the one who fits into your life is bound to leave you with more good times than bad. Remember that.

Always remember that you have friends and family to lean on when you struggle and a husband that loves you for exactly who you are.

I am so excited to watch you grow as a couple and take on this new life together.

I look forward to everything that is to come and all that you will experience and learn as newlyweds.

I’m ecstatic about continuing to be a part of your life and know that things will continue to get better from here. The best is yet to come.

So congratulations to my number one. I’m willing to take the second place spot now.