In August I will be 19. This means that for the last year I've been considered, at least in the eyes of the law, an adult. That being said, even though my life hasn't changed entirely, there are some big things that come with being a "big girl."
This year I have found a lot of independence. In August, me and many others moved into the dorms and away from our families for the first time. Strangely enough, I didn't go crazy and get arrested. Instead, I had to do things like learn how to be sick without having a kitchen right downstairs, or share a room with a complete stranger every second of every day. Adjusting so much of my life is not something I usually like to do, but the monotony of high school was over and this was brand new.
I had to control my life every minute of every day, and to some that becomes too chaotic, but to others it is a time to thrive. Schedule my classes, my meetings, when to do homework, when to eat breakfast, lunch, dinner. I choose my bedtime. I choose if I want to eat candy at 9 a.m. or 4 p.m. Adulthood is about finding your limits for yourself, and deciding what is most important. To me, being an adult is all about finding out who you are, and living how you want to. All of these things are done while learning what you can get away with, and of course making mistakes along the way. Juggling everyday life is something you come to appreciate. You learn to be grateful for everything you have, as soon as you realize how much toilet paper actually costs. Thank your parents! They do a lot more than you know!
From decorating my room, to doing laundry, and leaving my home for my new closet sized dorm room, my 18th year of life was one for the books. All of the years prior, I could hide under the shell of being a child, but this year was different. If I had a problem, I had to solve it. If I didn't feel well, I made the appointment, I drove myself, and explained to my teachers and boss that I wasn't able to come in. I started to do everything for myself. And for me, this was amazing because this was my new beginning. This was the start of adulthood.
All in all, this year was the best of my life so far. I found my group of people that really understand who I am growing to be. I have figured out, at least for now what I want to do with myself for the next three years. Who knows? Maybe I will have an even greater year at the age of 19, but this year will be one to beat.
To all of those who are turning 18, buckle up. You are in for a wild ride. College is coming. Freedom will happen. Adulthood is scary, but great. Very great. Enjoy it. You've earned it.
