For the boy who hurt my best friend:
In my eyes no man will ever be worthy of my best friend. You had the most perfect girl in the world but you were completely blind. You didn’t see the perfect person that I see, instead you just crushed her entire world with one relationship. And now she feels like she will never be good enough.
This is exactly why I’m so protective over my friends when it comes to men. Because I’m always there when they get completely heartbroken. I see the hurt that my friends go through after every breakup, and trust me, I don’t enjoy seeing them in the pain boys like you put them in. You may be able to blind her with your sweet talk and lies, but I never fell for it. I notice the nights you didn’t call her, the nights you would make her stay in while you go out, and I saw your true colors while she was carelessly falling for you. Because you made her feel like the most important thing in the world, even though she wasn’t the most important thing in your world. But she is in mine.
Then you broke her heart. You took her from me then gave her back to me broken. And here I am, mad at myself for allowing her to get hurt by you, because what kind of friend does that? You didn’t realize what you truly had. You up and left her for a new fling, or maybe you just got bored. All I can do is pray that one day my best friend meets the man who is willing to treat her the way she should be treated. Someone to show her why I kept telling her to leave you in the first place. You are just some silly boy that’s in her past now. So oddly enough, I want to thank you. Thank you for showing my best friend, (and me) what NOT to look for in a man. And just know that you lost the best thing to ever come into your life, because I know for a fact she has been the best thing to ever come into mine.
So just know that you did not break her for good. She will overcome this because that’s the person I know she is. All I ask is that, even though I know you will want to, please don’t come begging for her back. She deserves so much more than someone who only wants her when it’s convenient. She deserves the world and you can’t give that to her. All you gave her was a world of hurt. I can’t see my best friend in that kind of pain again. I don’t want to see her crying over anyone ever so keep your distance. I know I can’t always protect her but I can try my best. And lastly I hope one day soon you realize what you had lost; the most beautiful, kindhearted person you have ever been blessed with.
