To The College Student Staying Home For Summer

To The College Student Staying Home For Summer

I feel your pain!


To the college student staying home for the summer,

It's okay to be at home. But in reality, I know how awful it is. It can be challenging to enjoy it when you're working a 9-5, slaving away at an internship, and/or possibly taking summer classes. Days seem the same. Everything is a boring blur.

When you see your friends studying abroad or score an internship in another state, it's hard to not be jealous. You're happy for them and are excited to see what they're up to, but wishful thinking can set in. You begin to wish that it was you traveling to Greece or living in Chicago. This amplifies when people post about it every other day.

Living at home can be cumbersome if your friends live far away or at school in the summer. But you can figure out who your real friends are. If someone truly wants to be your friend, they will make the effort to stay in contact with you. Your friendship means more to them than the inconvenience of having to drive or fly a plane to see you. Nowadays, it's easy to FaceTime and catch up until you see them next!

Spending time with your parents isn't as bad as you think. I love being home and seeing them because when I go back to college, I know I'll be busier, so I may not be able to visit as often. Spend a day shopping with your mom or golfing with your dad: they'll love it and you both will have the memory of it forever. Going out with parents is a whole different ball game than going out with your friends; your parents may surprise you!

One of the nicest parts of being home is the silence. Compared to living up at school, home is the best place to relax because there's nobody walking the streets drunk at 2 AM shouting. Appreciate this while you can because it is hard to come by in a college town. Bask in the silence by sleeping in, watching your favorite show, reading a book, or working on homework.

Get to know your area more. When you have a free day, look up things to do. Go to a coffee shop or restaurant you haven't tried. Go downtown with a friend. See what activities are going on in the community. New sights are always a good way to switch up a routine.

You may have saved yourself a lot of money by staying home. If you want to go somewhere you've never been, start saving up now so that you're ready to go for next summer! It's brainless to spend all your checks and tips, but put aside a little bit each time. See how much can build up in your account, and you may be balling by the time summer is over.

Invest more time into yourself. If you want to eat healthier and go to the gym, do it. If you want to change your hair or your clothes, why not? Find new hobbies. Read more. Do whatever it is that makes you happy. With all this free time, summer is the perfect opportunity to re-establish self-love.

To the college student staying at home, I know it sucks, but it could be worse.

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Dear Mom and Dad, You Don't Understand What College Is Actually Like In The 21st Century

I can skip class. I can leave early, and I can show up late. But, ya see, I am not doing that.

College is not what you think it is. I am not sitting in a classroom for six hours listening to a professor speak about Shakespeare and the WW2.

I am not given homework assignments every night and told to hand them in next class.

I do not know my daily grade for each of the five classes I am taking, and I don't know if my professor even knows my name.

College today is a ton different than how it was 20+ years ago.

I go to class for about maybe three hours a day. Most of my time working on "college" is spent outside of the classroom. I am the one responsible for remembering my homework and when my ten-page essay is due.

I can skip class. I can leave early, and I can show up late. But, ya see, I am not doing that. I am a responsible person, even if you do not think I am.

I do get up every morning and drive myself to class. I do care about my assignments, grades, my degree, and my career.

I spend a lot of time on campus having conversations with my friends and relaxing outside.

I am sick of older generations thinking that us millennials are lazy, unmotivated, and ungrateful. While I am sure there are some who take things for granted, most of us paying to get a degree actually do give a s**t about our work ethic.

Dear mom and dad, I do care about my future and I am more than just a millennial looking to just get by.

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How To Stay Mentally Healthy In College

Our mental health is just as important as our physical health.


Staying healthy in college seems really, really hard to do. Classes, friends, clubs, and the whole fact of living by yourself can create a lot of stress and anxiety. Most students, and people in general, don't really know how to deal with stress or how to take care of themselves mentally, leading to unhealthy behaviors physically and mentally. If you don't take care of your mental health, your physical health will suffer eventually. Here are a few tips and tricks to help take care of your mental health:

1. Eat a well-balanced diet

Eating fruits, vegetables, grains, and other healthy foods will help you feel more energized and motivated. Most people associate eating a balanced diet as beneficial for your physical health, but it is just as important for your mental health.

2. Keep a journal and write in it daily

Writing can be one of the most relaxing and stress-relieving things you can do for yourself. Writing down the issues you are struggling with or the problems you are encountering in your life on a piece of paper can help you relax and take a step back from that stress.

3. Do something that brings you joy

Take some time to do something that brings you joy and happiness! It can be really easy to forget about this when you are running around with your busy schedule but make some time to do something you enjoy. Whether it be dancing, writing, coloring, or even running, make some time for yourself.

4. Give thanks

Keeping a gratitude log — writing what brings you joy and happiness — helps to keep you positively minded, which leads to you becoming mentally healthy. Try to write down three things that brought you joy or made you smile from your day.

5. Smile and laugh

Experts say that smiling and laughing help improve your mental health. Not only is it fun to laugh, but laughing also helps you burn calories! There's a reason why smiling and laughing are often associated with happiness and joyful thoughts.

6. Exercise

Staying active and doing exercises that energize your body will help release endorphins and serotonin, which both act as a natural antidepressant. Keeping an active lifestyle will help you stay happy!

7. Talk out your problems

All of us deal with stress and have problems from time to time. The easiest and probably most beneficial way to deal with this stress and anxiety is to talk it out with a close friend, family member, or even a counselor.

8. See a counselor, peer mentor, or psychologist

Just like it was stated in the previous point, it is beneficial to talk out your problems with a counselor. We all have issues, and it is OK to ask for help.

Keeping up your mental health in college can be a struggle, and it may be hard to even admit you are not mentally healthy. This is OK; you are not alone. If you want to see a psychologist or would like to learn more about mental health, there are resources. You can also take a self-assessment of your mental health. If you are struggling with thoughts of suicide, please, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.

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