25 Thoughts Every Young Adult Has When They Move Out

25 Thoughts Every Young Adult Has When They Move Out

Moving out is tough, and sometimes all I want to do is call my mom and cry.


Being four and a half hours from home is challenging all on its own, but couple that with all of the stresses that come along with adulting and you're in for a ride. There are many things that I wish I knew before I stretched my wings and took my first trembling baby steps. I'm sure if you're like me, these thoughts have popped up in your mind.

1. I never realized I had so much stuff

Downsize and only take the essentials, trust me.

2. And I have to carry all this heavy stuff by myself?

Yes you do, good luck climbing stairs with that shelving unit.

3. *Googles how to make a grilled cheese*

It's okay, I still don't know how to cook for myself either.

4. How often do I need to sweep?

There's grit on the floor, but is it a reasonable amount of grit? Or am I just a slob?

5. If I just buy disposable plates and forks, I'll never have to do dishes!

Not only is that bad for the environment, you'll also sink more money than you realize into buying disposable plates and forks.

6. Groceries are expensive.

Healthy food isn't cheap, and cheap food isn't healthy.

7. I spend HOW MUCH a month?

Rent, WiFi, utilities, gas, food. It adds up very quickly.

8. Can I afford this?

*Checks mobile banking account frantically*

9. This is going to be so much FUN! I can't wait to be on my own.

10. This is NOT FUN. I hate living on my own!

11. I want my mom. I'm scared.

I call my mom with all kids of adulting questions, and I'm pretty sure that will never stop.

12. Do I have credit?

13. How do I get credit?

14. Can my mom give me some of her credit?

15. Is this what being an adult is? Constantly being poor?

From what I have learned so far, yes. That's exactly what it's like.

16. I'm scared

It is absolutely okay to be scared because there's no comfort in growth. Growing up is uncomfortable, and you will be unsure. You've got this.

17. I miss having someone help me with cleaning the house

With great apartment life comes great house cleaning.

18. When do I get paid again?

Living in wait of pay day is far from ideal, but it is the reality when you first move out.

19. Can't I just move back home?

Nope, you've signed your lease.

20. Oh, my tooth hurts, too bad I can't afford to go to the dentist. 

Welp, good luck with keeping up with your physical health as well as your finances, job, school, social life, mental health, community involvement, studying, etc.

21. How does fabric softener work?

Me: Calls mom

22. Why is my pantry only full of crackers and peanut butter?

Because all you can afford is crackers and peanut butter.

23. I'm not ready to be an adult!

Are any of us ready?

24. I'll unpack that later

You will not unpack it for months if ever. You'll probably move out with that same box still unpacked

25. Why did I think this was going to be easy?

It always seems impossible until it is done. Keep trying!

26. *Calls mom again just to talk about something random because I miss her.*

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13 Movies Every Couple Needs To Watch Before They Get Married

Let's be honest, Rachel McAdams is in all the best love stories.


These 13 movies are the foundation of any long-lasting relationship, and I'm not joking. Each movie will show you something new about your partner, and make you ask each other the hard questions. How many kids do you want and how are you going to raise them? What would happen if you got into a horrible accident? Some are less serious though, like what if you could time travel?

I promise that not every one of these movies is a Nicholas Sparks classic, and I also promise that not every movie has Rachel McAdams in it!

1. "The Time Traveler's Wife"

This movie is both heartbreaking and amazing.

2. "About Time"

Let's be honest, Rachel McAdams is in all the best love stories. It's on Netflix right now, so grab some snacks and turn it on!

3. "Like Crazy"

This infamous Tumblr gif came from "Like Crazy." It's about a couple who goes long distance and build their life together. I used to cry every time I watched it, and I'm no crier! It also has the (now famous) Felicity Jones in it.

4. "The Notebook"

Every girl wants this kind of love.

5. "The Last Song"

Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth are literally married now so if that isn't good luck, I don't know what is.

6. "Safe Haven"

You guessed it! This is another Nicholas Sparks classic. This movie has a dark twist as well, which men will love.

7. "Inside Out"

You may be thinking that this one is a bit weird. Well, this movie will help both you and your partner understand each other's emotions better.

8. "The Choice"

This movie is great because the female lead is feisty and extremely intelligent, which usually doesn't happen in love stories. How do you keep the love alive with a woman who is hard to get, and even harder to keep entertained?

9. "The Longest Ride"

Originally I could not stand the main female lead (Britt Robertson) but now she is in one of my favorite shows (For The People), so I have no choice. This movie had me on the end of my seat, and as a rom-com it is a must.

10. "The Age Of Adaline"

I began loving the name 'Adaline' thanks to this movie. This unlikely love story and self love journey really gets me.

11. "The Vow"

Imagine falling in love with someone and building a life, but an accident forces you to start all over?

12. "Titanic"

If they don't have any sort of reaction to this movie, they are probably not the one for you.

13. "Yours, Mine, & Ours"

Yours, Mine, & Ours is a true classic. Are you Helen or Frank Beardsley? You should figure that out before you tie the knot!

You're welcome!

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15 Thing Only Early 2000's Kids Will Understand

"Get connected for free, with education connection"


This is it early 2000's babies, a compilation finally made for you. This list is loaded with things that will make you swoon with nostalgia.

1. Not being accepted by the late 90's kids.


Contrary to what one may think, late 90's and early 00's kids had the same childhood, but whenever a 00's kid says they remember something on an "only 90's kids will understand" post they are ridiculed.

2. Fortune tellers.


Every day in elementary school you would whip one of these bad boys out of your desk, and proceed to tell all of your classmates what lifestyle they were going to live and who they were going to marry.



You could never read this book past 8 o'clock at night out of fear that your beloved pet rabbit would come after you.

4. Silly bands.


You vividly remember begging your parents to buy you $10 worth of cheap rubber bands that vaguely resembles the shape of an everyday object.

5. Parachutes.


The joy and excitement that washed over you whenever you saw the gym teacher pull out the huge rainbow parachute. The adrenaline that pumped through your veins whenever your gym teacher tells you the pull the chute under you and sit to make a huge "fort".

6. Putty Erasers


You always bought one whenever there was a school store.

7. iPod shuffle.


The smallest, least technological iPpd apple has made, made you the coolest kid at the bus stop.

8. "Education Connection"

You knew EVERY wood to the "Education Connection" commercials. Every. Single.Word.

9. " The Naked Brothers Band"


The "Naked Brothers Band" had a short run on Nickelodeon and wrote some absolute bangers including, "Crazy Car' and "I Don't Wanna Go To School"

10. Dance Dance Revolution


This one video game caused so many sibling, friend, and parent rivalries. This is also where you learned all of your super sick dance moves.

11. Tamagotchi


Going to school with fear of your Tamagotchi dying while you were away was your biggest worry.

12. Gym Scooters


You, or somebody you know most likely broke or jammed their finger on one of these bad boys, but it was worth it.

13. Scholastic book fairs


Begging your parents for money to buy a new book, and then actually spending it on pens, pencils, erasers, and posters.



Who knew that putting yogurt in a plastic tube made it taste so much better?

15. Slap Bracelets


Your school probably banned these for being "too dangerous".

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