It is a scientific fact that men and women have differently wired brains. This explains why we have such a hard time understanding each other. It is no secret that girls love to overthink every little thing and make the smallest issues complicated whereas to a guy, the answer seems so simple. From a girl’s perspective, boys are just oblivious and we don’t understand why boys don’t get our hints. From a boy’s point of view, girls are just crazy. Here are just a few ways that guys and girls are typically on different pages.
1. Texting
Girls: When a guy takes more than 10 minutes to reply, girls start to think What is going on? Is he not interested in me? Am I ugly? Is he with another girl? What’s wrong with me?
Guys: Meanwhile, the boy is likely just caught up watching a football game or playing 2K with his friends. It’s really not all that serious. He probably didn’t even realize that the girl replied.
2. Social MediaGirls: When a guy likes another girls picture, girls like to assume that means there is something between them. When a guy likes her own picture, or favorites a tweet, girls get a little too excited that this means they are super interested. Omg he liked my insta pic…what should we name our first child?
Guys: Guys do not put this much thought into a like or a favorite. Yeah, he might like a girl’s picture if he thinks she’s cute but this by no means implies anything more than simply that. Hold off on the wedding plans for now, ladies.
3. Spending time together
Girls: We haven’t seen each other in five days…he totally isn’t into me anymore. I should have known all along. How could I be so stupid? He’s probably already moved on and hanging out with other girls every day.
Guys: Most of the time guys are actually just busy and haven’t even realized it has been five days.
4. Appearance
Girls: He’s kind of cute. His hair is a little weird but he has really nice eyes. His personality makes him super likable though. I love a guy that can make me laugh.
Guys: She’s hot or she’s not.
5. Dates
Girls: Girls will think about a date days in advance. We start getting ready hours before, plan the perfect outfit and spend an hour forming flawless curls to anxiously wait to be picked up by our prince charming.
Guys: Oh, I’m supposed to pick her up in 15 minutes. I guess I’ll take a quick shower and head over.
Girls will just never understand that sometimes guys actually aren’t thinking anything at all. Our brains just aren’t wired that way. We like to blow things out of proportion and drive ourselves crazy with thoughts. Guys just like to go with the flow and hang with their bros. They will never understand how much we interpret every little thing that happens between us. We will always have this fundamental difference and the opposite sexes and will just never be able to fully relate.