13 Things To Do If You're Single On Valentine's Day

13 Things To Do If You're Single On Valentine's Day

Throw an anti-Valentine's Day Party or eat some chocolate.
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I think that it's common knowledge that if you’re single in February, you hope that the calendar would skip from the 13th to the 15th. No one who doesn’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend wants to watch cute couples doing cute couple stuff. Then, as an added bonus, we get to see it all on Instagram and Facebook! So here are some ideas to make your Valentine’s Day without a significant other significant!

1. Go out with your friends.

Rename your day as “Pal-entine’s” or “Gal-entine’s” Day and have fun.

2. Go to the movies.

It doesn't have to be a love story.

3. Throw an anti-Valentine’s Day party.

Only invite the singles.

4. Indulge.

Go to the spa, a sports game or whatever else makes you happy.

5. Treat yourself.

Go shopping for a Valentine’s Day gift … for yourself!

6. Do “Secret Valentine” with your friends.

It’s like Secret Santa except in February!

7. Get together with your family.

Hopefully someone in your family is single or your parents can let you third-wheel.

8. Eat some chocolate.

Couples aren’t the only ones who can buy boxes of chocolate.

9. Show your love.

Text your friends, write a note to your mom or tell someone that you love them.

10. Give someone else some love.

Cook dinner for someone else, volunteer somewhere or donate.

11. Find something new to love.

Discover a new TV show, a new hobby, a new exercise method, a new food dish or a new outlook.

12. Go somewhere.

Go on a road trip either solo or with your friends.

13. Cry, but then get over it.

Sure, shed some tears that you’re single, watch some Netflix, sign up for eHarmony, but then remember that it isn’t the end of the world and that Valentine’s Day is just another day of the year.

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Nostalgic feelings have recently caused me to reflect back on my freshman year of college. No other year of my life has been filled with more ups and downs, and highs and lows, than freshman year. Throughout all of the madness, one factor remained constant: my roommate. It is time to thank her for everything. These are only a few of the many reasons to do so, and this goes for roommates everywhere.

You have been through all the college "firsts" together.

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You were even each other's first real college friend.

Months before move-in day, you were already planning out what freshman year would be like. Whether you previously knew each other, met on Facebook, or arranged to meet in person before making any decisions, you made your first real college friend during that process.

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It is no secret that transitioning from high school to college is difficult. No matter how excited you were to get away from home, reality hit at some point. Although some people are better at adjusting than others, at the times when you were not, your roommate was there to listen. You helped each other out, and made it through together.

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Remember the first week when we stayed up talking until 2:00 a.m. every night? Late night talks will never be more real than they were freshman year. There was so much to plan for, figure out, and hope for. Your roommate talked, listened, laughed, and cried right there with you until one of you stopped responding because sleep took over.

You saw each other at your absolute lowest.

It was difficult being away from home. It hurt watching relationships end and losing touch with your hometown friends. It was stressful trying to get in the swing of college level classes. Despite all of the above, your roommate saw, listened, and strengthened you.

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After seeing each other during the lows, seeing each other during the highs was such a great feeling. Getting involved on campus, making new friends, and succeeding in classes are only a few of the many ways you have watched each other grow.

There was so much time to bond before the stresses of college would later take over.

Freshman year was not "easy," but looking back on it, it was more manageable than you thought at the time. College only gets busier the more the years go on, which means less free time. Freshman year you went to lunch, dinner, the gym, class, events, and everything else possible together. You had the chance to be each other's go-to before it got tough.

No matter what, you always bounced back to being inseparable.

Phases of not talking or seeing each other because of business and stress would come and go. Even though you physically grew apart, you did not grow apart as friends. When one of you was in a funk, as soon as it was over, you bounced right back. You and your freshman roommate were inseparable.

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Your old dorm room is now filled with two freshmen trying to make it through their first year. They will never know all the memories that you made in that room, and how it used to be your home. You can only hope that they will have the relationship you had together to reflect on in the years to come.


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