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19 Things Everyone Should Know Before They Turn 19

"The right thing and the easy thing are rarely the same."

ashleigh crouch

Dec 03, 2018

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About two weeks ago, I celebrated my 19th birthday. Amidst all the fun of reminiscing with my friends and family, I got to thinking about all of the things I've learned over the years. Knowledge passed to me from family, teachers, older friends, and a few things I picked up on my own. Here they are, in no particular order:

Other people's opinions of you don't matter. Do what you want to do, and don't let anyone stop you.

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Everyone has their own best interest in mind. Even you.

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Adults aren't always right just because they're adults. They make mistakes too.

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But most adults, especially teachers and your parents, have your best interest in mind.

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You should never pretend to agree with someone just so they'll like you. It's important to have your own opinions and be able to think for yourself.

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It's also not okay to disagree with someone out of spite. If someone else is right, admit it and move on.

People change. People leave. Even the ones you thought would always be there.

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Spoiler alert: NO ONE has life all figured out, no matter how they make it seem.

You will probably get your heartbroken, and you will probably break someone else's heart.

People will definitely try to pressure you into doing things, and sometimes you may not even realize it. Be careful.

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However, just because someone asks nicely doesn't mean you have to do anything you don't want to do. Saying "no" is okay.

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Some people just aren't meant to be in your life forever, and that's okay.

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It's important to decide what your beliefs are and why you believe them before you get to college.

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Spend as much time as you can with your family now, because there will come a day when you don't all live together anymore. I promise you will miss them.

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If your goal is to have a relationship like the ones in romance movies, you're always going to be disappointed. Real love takes work.

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You are not entitled to anything. Sometimes (most times, in fact,) you're going to have to work for what you want.

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The right thing and the easy thing are rarely the same.

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Everyone has an opinion, and everyone thinks that their opinion is the only one that is right. Be patient with people, and don't waste your life on petty arguments.

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And most importantly: Strive for happiness. Don't chase after fame or money if what you're chasing is not something you're passionate about.

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"The right thing and the easy thing are rarely the same."

Other people's opinions of you don't matter. Do what you want to do, and don't let anyone stop you.

Everyone has their own best interest in mind. Even you.

Adults aren't always right just because they're adults. They make mistakes too.

But most adults, especially teachers and your parents, have your best interest in mind.

You should never pretend to agree with someone just so they'll like you. It's important to have your own opinions and be able to think for yourself.

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People change. People leave. Even the ones you thought would always be there.

Spoiler alert: NO ONE has life all figured out, no matter how they make it seem.

You will probably get your heartbroken, and you will probably break someone else's heart.

People will definitely try to pressure you into doing things, and sometimes you may not even realize it. Be careful.

However, just because someone asks nicely doesn't mean you have to do anything you don't want to do. Saying "no" is okay.

Some people just aren't meant to be in your life forever, and that's okay.

It's important to decide what your beliefs are and why you believe them before you get to college.

Spend as much time as you can with your family now, because there will come a day when you don't all live together anymore. I promise you will miss them.

If your goal is to have a relationship like the ones in romance movies, you're always going to be disappointed. Real love takes work.

You are not entitled to anything. Sometimes (most times, in fact,) you're going to have to work for what you want.

The right thing and the easy thing are rarely the same.

Everyone has an opinion, and everyone thinks that their opinion is the only one that is right. Be patient with people, and don't waste your life on petty arguments.

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

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