The Weight That We Carry

The Weight That We Carry

A poem to remind you that you don't have to carry your burdens by yourself.

Author's Note: We all have baggage that we carry. Although we all have different kinds of crap that we carry it's there all the same. But we never have to carry it by ourselves. I hope this poem helps you realize that maybe the person you least expect is ready to carry you and everything that comes with you at the drop of a hat.

The Weight

This weight that I carry is heavy and hard.

As sturdy as bricks,

yet as uneven as boulders.

I haul this luggage for years and years.

Past crumbling buildings and scorched forests burnt to ash.

Under vast oceans as blue as sapphires,

Through gardens full of thorns,

Over sloping mountains covered in snow and wheat fields as tall as skyscrapers,

I carry my burdens for as long as I can.

I want to stop.

I need to stop.

But I keep going anyways.

Because since I have carried this weight for so long I have forgotten it's even there.

Eventually I crash.

As fast and explosive as a car crash I fall to my knees dripping in blood and tears.

There's no way I can simply fix this with tacky glue or replace long lost parts that have been missing for years.

Still I try to stand, knowing that if I fall at least it will be over.

But as I do I feel a hand placed on my shoulder, soft and warm.

The hand gently pulls me off the ground to the point where I am yet again standing.

I brush the dust off my knees and as I do the hand slowly but surely pulls a cement block off my shoulders.

The hand continues to do so until she has over half of my blocks.

She points forward, towards a open field and bright sky.

Once we get there we dump every single brick and stone that has ever claimed a spot on my spine.

She pulls a baseball bat out of the small pack she carries and hands the bat to me.

She gingerly wraps my fingers around the base of the bat and smiles at me.

I nod gratefully in response and she takes a few steps back as I walk right up the pile of rubble in front of me.

With all of my might I smash and throw the bricks, rocks, and boulders until there is nothing but dirt.

Even that is blown away by the gentle breeze flowing through the air.

I drop the bat with a sigh and walk out to my unnamed rescuer who stand there with open arms.

She pulls me into her, enveloping me in the warmth of the sun and the light of the moon.

My arms squeeze back as tight as they can but eventually go limp, finally feeling the freedom of letting go.

I take my friend's right hand gripping it tight and we both walk towards the unknown together, but without the weight of the world on my shoulders.

We can carry our burdens alone or walk in the dark without a flashlight but we never have to.

Cover Image Credit: Pexels

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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Life Is So Much More Than Ourselves

The lives we live are really so much bigger than just ourselves.


I hope people hear this loud and clear when I say that this generation of people and quite frankly our society as a whole has become one of the most selfish to date. I really hope people reading this don't take it as me calling people out, "throwing shade" or bashing humanity, I'm just trying to put out a call to action but in a more blunt way.

This generation subconsciously lives by the "me, my, mine" lifestyle. Everything is all about us, and what we want and immediate satisfaction or gratification from the things that we do in life. We always want someone to notice what we are doing, that we did it and we want to be acknowledged for it. Our wants and desires power so much of what we do and how we react to what others do and so on and so forth. Also, kind of piggybacking on that, we tend to believe or live by the idea that, "yeah it happens, but it's never gonna happen to me" which can be a major issue when it comes to decision making. This is because we don't think about how it affects anyone but ourselves, usually in the immediate sense rather than the long term.

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