The 9 Stages Of Bringing Boys To Sorority Date Parties

The 9 Stages Of Bringing Boys To Sorority Date Parties

"I know we just met, but want to go to my date party tonight?"
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Date parties are every sorority girl's favorite event, but also the most dreaded. It's hard to decide who to bring and if they would even be a fun date. Most of the time I'm scrambling last minute to find someone who won't be too drunk, would buy me drinks at the bar, and be fun to dance with but understanding when my friends and I run off to the bathroom.

Sometimes I feel like finding the perfect date is impossible, probably because I put my standards too high.

1. Scavengering The Bars And Frats For Cute Boys

2. Seeing Which Boys Are Willing To Buy Me A Drink

3. Asking Boy #1 and Have Him Make Up An Excuse

4. Asking Boy #2 and Have Him Make Up An Excuse



6. Drunk Texting The Boy You Met 2 Months Ago At A Frat Party And Asking HIM To Go With You

7. Even Though He Doesn't Even Remember How You Look, He Says Yes Because He Realizes You're Desperate

8. He Cancels On You An Hour Before The Party

9. You End Going Dateless and Have A Better Time With Your Friends Than You Would've Had With Him

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1. You eat something you hate just to see if you still hate it

I'll take a bite of a burger every once in a while just to reaffirm that it still tastes like dirt. I just have to know. Don't even get me started on vegetables.

2. When trying to explain what you actually like to eat, people give you major side eye

Don't ask me about my eating habits unless you want to get into a long, confusing conversation.

3. Eating at someone else’s house when you were younger was a pain

You hate to tell their parents just how much you hate the food that they gave you. So, you sucked it up and ate it anyway only to come home and whine to your parents.

4. There’s one thing on any menu you always fall back on...even if it’s on the kids menu

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5. Trying a new food is a very proud moment

It's like, wow! Look at me being all adventurous.

6. When you realize you actually like some new food, that’s an even more amazing moment

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6 Things Every Girl Should Know Before Rush

What you should know before signing up for recruitment.

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It is a new year, and a new semester. Returning to campus after a long winter break means new classes, new professors, and of course, recruitment. This is an exciting time, but can also be very stressful for a lot of girls. Here a 6 things every girl should know before signing up for recruitment!

1. Stay off of Greek Rank.

Do yourself a favor, and STAY OFF GREEK RANK. Websites that rate sororities are not always true and will make you more paranoid before actually meeting different houses. If you go in with a good attitude, you will have a much better rush experience!

2. Stay true to who you are 

It sounds cheesy, but it's true! You should not have to change who you are in order to fit a certain sorority's "style' or "look". Each sorority is different, and you will end up where you are supposed to be. Just be yourself and everything will work out in the end!

3. Physical appearances aren't everything. 

Rush can be very stressful, especially when it comes to physical appearance. Many girls stress over their hair, makeup, and outfit (including myself). It is important to remember that sororities are not just looking for the girls with the best outfit or the prettiest face, they are looking for a good personality. So embrace your style and remember to be to stay true to you!

4. Go in with an open mind. 

It is ok to not know anything about Greek life before heading into rush. You shouldn't stress about getting into a "top tier" sorority or getting a particular house to like you. If you go in with a positive attitude, people will notice. When you feel happy, comfortable, and confident, you have found the perfect sorority for you!

5. If things don't work out, it's ok!

It is important to remember that a sorority will not make or break your college experience. If you do not get into the sorority of your choice, or you realize Greek life just isn't for you, there are many other ways to get involved on campus. Joining a club or an intramural sports team is a great way to meet new people and be part of a larger community!

6. Find your perfect fit. 

If you go into recruitment pretending to be someone that you're not, you may end up in the sorority that you are not meant to be in. Recruitment is designed to meet girls that share the same values and interests as you. If you keep this in mind during rush, you will find the sorority that is perfect for you!

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