How To Find Positivity In Death | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

How To Find Positivity In Death

The key to success and happiness is resilience.

36
How To Find Positivity In Death
Business Insider

I couldn't have watched a more inspiring speech on what a loved one's death has taught someone.

Sheryl Sandberg, the COO of Facebook, in May spoke at UC Berkeley's Commencement Speech, and it was absolutely phenomenal. It was so evident that her words came straight from her heart and flowed so well that it is, hands down, the most powerful speech I have personally heard in recent times. She has learned about "the depths of sadness and the brutality of loss."

But, she also "learned that when life sucks you under, you can kick against the bottom, find the surface, and breathe again." She found positivity after her husband's unexpected death from a freak accident when they were vacationing. She found even more confidence to achieve more and to support her two children through these tough times. She found peace following "the worst day of her life." Her words brought an encouraging ambiance and inspired the new graduates to explore the world through their own visions. Despite setbacks, as cliché as this sounds, the goals will workout. Life will workout. The key to success and happiness is resilience.

"It is the greatest irony of my life that losing my husband helped me find deeper gratitude—gratitude for the kindness of my friends, the love of my family, the laughter of my children," Sandberg stated to the new graduates. She encouraged them and all of us to find "that gratitude — not just on the good days, like today, but on the hard ones, when you will really need it."

Her lessons to us from what she learned through her husband's death has truly made a profound effect. It has given us hope, strength, and most importantly positivity to continue to handle the long journey of life — one filled with lessons, hardships, joys, and celebrations that will ultimately lead us to our destinations.

For those who are looking for some inspiration, be sure to watch her speech here.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

1037094
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

952740
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

The Importance Of Being A Good Person

An open letter to the good-hearted people.

1338288
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments