I have always loved animals. Since early childhood I have been drawn to pet stores, begged to go to the zoo, and formed dreams of becoming a world-renowned veterinarian. Now that I'm older, I've realized that someone as squeamish at the sight of blood as I am would not, in fact, make a good vet. But my love for wildlife has not diminished.
As such, my family has always prioritized our pets. From my earliest memories, our dogs have felt as integral a part of our home as any one of us is. People like to mock those who treat their pets too much like humans, and with companies coming out with products like doggie vests and kitty crowns, it's no wonder. But I believe it is important to recognize how special the bond between a pet and her owner can be, especially when that bond has been forged from love and trust.
My father and our pet German Shepherd is a prime example. When Bodie came to our family from a shelter in Pennsylvania, he was a thin, scared little thing. But now he's a big, bodacious--hence the name--goofball. And the way he loves my dad is endearing to witness. He knows his place is right next to him on the couch. When my dad is away for work, he looks out the window and waits for him to come home. Some people believe that animals don't experience the same types of feelings people do, and to some extent that may be true, but Bodie is proof that they do understand what it is to love, and miss, and accept.
And research has shown that not only do animals benefit from a loving family, but that that loving family can benefit right back. Animals bring an element of responsibility that teaches children what it means to hold someone's life in your hands. These pets cannot take care of themselves––they depend on their owners for everything. And to give an animal a wonderful life is a reward in and of itself.
Animals have been proven to reduce anxiety as well. Petting a dog or cat is considered to be therapeutic, and can greatly increase levels of happiness. When my day is taking a sour turn, Marli, my cat, just seems to know, and I can always count on a good cuddle to come my way.
For those who own pets and see them just as animals, you are missing out. You are missing out on the chance to add to your family. You are missing out on a buddy to take on a walk, on a little fluff ball who keeps you warmer than your Snuggie, and on a companion who can change your entire world.
So yes, maybe the little bell collar and cat bed I bought is excessive. Maybe she doesn't need so many toys. But as far as I'm concerned, she is family. And family is the most important thing of all.
