Hey, I am talking to you. Do you know why is it so important to 'break up' ?
This might sound pretty abstract and weird but sometimes it becomes important to 'break up'. And for me this phrase has a deeper meaning.
In life, you have to break up with those people or things which give you pain as if there is a hole in your chest. Be it a failed marital relationship, your friends, an intolerable dysfunctionality between you and your relatives or even objects or instances of our past.
It can be anything/ anyone from your friend to your teddy. Yes, they all are important in your life. But ask yourself, are you happy with them around you? Do you feel relaxed with their presence in your life? If it's a no, then understand it is the time to break up with them as their presence brings you down constantly.
And it becomes a mammoth task to keep the light of your mind glowing in your soul.
You want to get away from them but something stops you. Maybe it is fear, stress or anxiety of the consequences of doing so. This feeling is natural and it happens.
I too felt a similar level of pressure in my heart but I just decided to give up on some relations of my life, on those dreadful moments of the past that stopped me from moving up in life.... And to some extent I have been successful at eliminating them. I am hopeful that the remnants of those negativities will get flushed away from my life soon.
I have seen many people letting go of these pressures of their lives and they have never been so peaceful in their lives.
What I want to say is that do not let the toxicity of those relations, objects or moments test the strength of your mind and your patience. It is always better to let go of them, then sticking around with them for long.
So sit with yourself, imagine your life without those people and I am sure all you'll have is that happiness which you have been searching for long. It will lighten the baggage of tension from your head and make you independent of this cage of failed relations.
Break up, let go, taste freedom and attain mental peace!
Cheers :)
