There are many times we feel love hurts our very soul and we must recover from a horrible night, never hearing from a person again, or the confusing over high intense scenarios as to what went wrong. Once we all have those feelings, music is the best option to release all that frustration and sadness. We from starting go on dates, the relationship, and finally if ever, the end of a couple. There needs to be a coin term for this act where we listen getting over our heartbreak. Here are ten stages of a musical heartbreak.
1.Suzanne- Leonard Cohen:
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The first moment you see the most beautiful person in the world. Nervous behavior, losing confidence, and sweating bullets to stress over uncontrolled nostalgia just the thought of the one. From this point, you have very little knowledge or you have heard several things about her. And several dreams rise above the innocent love you feel for the person like imagine if coming towards you and taking you somewhere. Had that done before and it was the best time of my life. “Takes her down to her place near the river, you can hear the boats go by, you can spend the night beside her. And you know she’s half-crazy, and that is why you want to be there” because the mystery to find your imaginations of the person true.
2. Downtown Train- Everything but the Girl
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Now you want several dates and start to talk through yourself wanting more and more, hope to see them in the same places you arrive. Love is crazy for we all have many times to thrive seeing them at their place or ignore all the people you met after your many dates and decide once and for all you want her. “I know your window and i know it’s late, i know your stair and your doorway” and we wish to enter those door archers while at the same wonder “will i see you tonight...every night it's just the same”.
3. Get It Daddy- Sleeper Agent
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The rebelling arrives to whatever parents said to you about your partner. “Ooh i am not a baby no more” is exactly what i feel when i want my family to think when meeting the best person i think to spend time.
4. Just What I Needed- The Cars
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Ooh things are starting to get cooked up because you two are attracting more personality than you can think to ask questions for one another. Meaning you don't mind each others company and nice to feel the other person next to you. And plus you might consider the idea to move in together because “I guess you are just what i needed”.
5. Better Together- Jack Johnson
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Finally you have hit the best part of the relationship where you know that love is near you but “There's no combination of words I could put on the back of a postcard, No song that i could sing, But I can try for your heart” is exactly the moment where no troubles are starting until you think maybe somebody maybe sinking up on them.
6. The Sound- The 1975
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Oh there is the moment our personalities do have conflicts and thinking this person can never be real to you. Yes opposites attract but love is not science and for someone explaining that to the 1975 fan. I will say that it is not the answer. Rather love is so complicated “and your tunes, but i might move in and i thought that you were straight now i'm wondering”. I was in a relationship for a whole month and my girlfriend at the time told me she was seeing someone else openly. Complication indeed.
7.Rumor Has It- Adele
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May i say more your partner is likely seeing someone better than you or has the most attractive love bugs cramming in their pants. Moreover, may i say anything new to this topic if your partner is listening to Adele a lot than to just listen to it. Like wake up singing Adele oh they may think you are slipping away from them. Just kidding, or am I. Even though “she, she ain't real, she is a stranger, you and I have history, or don't you remember?”.
8. Carry On- Norah Jones
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I think these words speak for itself “if you should find the time to speak, then speak to me, I’d never keep you from your final destiny so carry on” for this is the time of departure. It is time to carry on and never wonder what the best could had happen rather what is the best for you only to move for the future.
9. Sorry, Blame it on me- Akon
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After the first week of the breakup, you will relapse to have do anything to make the other person jealous to come back, or start messaging constantly to tell them how horrible they are. The best way to handle this is two people had many faults.
Recite these holy words from Akon and stick them to your heart:
I understand that there are some problems
And I am not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show
If I can't apologize for being wrong
Then it’s just a shame on me
I’ll be the reason for your pain and you can put the blame on me
10. Dancing with Myself- Billy Idol
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All of the drama is over and get out there, don’t take one person to ever make you worthless. There “is nothing to lose and there is nothing to prove, I’ll be dancing with myself”. Amen to that. Keep calm and carry on.
