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The Guy Is Always In Control

When we want it, they don't.

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The Guy Is Always In Control

Friends with benefits or even relationships the guy is always in control. We allow this. Despite if they are a fuck boy or not.

As women, we have our vulnerable moments, and we allow guys to come and go whenever they please. We love the attention. But we get tired of giving all the attention. We give 100% and receive maybe half.

We fall in love or catch feelings because we are just too nice sometimes. Guys sweet talk us very easily and we love to be admired, even if we have a lot of self-confidence. Love and feelings will do it to you, sadly.

All we want is to be wanted. It sucks being unwanted. It sucks letting someone in. It sucks being sexual with someone, and them not caring at all. This is when we learn about our self-worth. I have been in each one of these situations and they suck. I honestly have lost any feeling of liking someone a lot since the last boy I liked deeply. I do not care to look for a boy at the moment right now. I could care less about feeling any type of feeling for a boy at the moment. I have been hurt way to many times to even allow myself to feel for anybody else.

The keyword I kept saying in the paragraph above is "boy". Ladies do not settle for a "boy" who acts as the world revolves around him. Never settle or allow yourself to be someone's second choice or someone's booty call even though you actually like them.

Today's society in college is so messed up. Yes, we are all trying to figure out who we are, but it does not allow you to mess with someone's feelings knowing how vulnerable they are. This society is a hook-up world in college. So, ladies if you allow yourself to be in the hook-up world be able to handle it before you end up getting upset.

Remember you're beautiful and you are worthy.

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