Yes, it exists. There is one thing most people seem to know and that is the dreaded “friend zone.” For those who are not aware of the term, it is basically referred to someone who likes someone and the person they like tells them they only want to be friends. Therefore, that person is heartbroken and are in the “friend zone.” It happens to a ton of people but for some reason, guys think they are the only ones who fall into it and girls have it easy. Well, guess what? GIRLS CAN BE IN THE FRIENDZONE, TOO. Actually, guys may fall into it more because they usually creep me out, but I personally feel it is WAY harder for a girl to get out of the friend zone than a guy. Guys, we have all seen the TV shows where a guy is in the friend zone but eventually he was there all along and the girl realizes she has always loved him. *cough* Kim Possible *cough*. For the girl, when she gets put in the friend zone, the guy will never look at her as anything more. At least, that’s how it has always been for me. Guys will not hesitate to put me in the friend zone, which is cool and everything, but I just accept my fate. People say the only reason people are in the friend zone is because they don’t speak up and take risks. No, it’s real. Even if you directly tell someone how they feel, they will do what they want.
Moral of the story: the friend zone sucks, but everyone has someone out there somewhere. I know we may feel that we will be alone forever and die alone, but we really do have someone waiting for us. We may just have to be in the friend zone for a year or two until we find them.
