Dear Dad (putting "step" in front seems impossible because to me, you are my dad),

While I have a parent floating around somewhere in the world who was supposed to take care of me, love me, and watch me grow into the woman I am today, he could never amount to who you are. You have pushed me to make the best choices, follow my heart, and love the Lord with each passing day. When you met my mom, I was more than excited. You were so kind to her-- something she needed--and you loved her more than any other man has--something I thank you and praise God every day for. If you would have not come around, my world would be so different.

You have cheered me on, yelling in the megaphone as I walk up the stairs into the house, gave me advice on the most important decisions I have came across yet, and most importantly, loved me like your own. I'll never be able to thank you enough for loving my mom and allowing us to invade all parts of your life; but I could possibly never say thank you enough for caring for me as if I was a real daughter. Thank you for constantly giving me advice, making me laugh when laughing doesn't seem possible, and pushing me to be the most God-loving young adult.

You are an inspiration in the eyes of many, but especially to me. You tell me stories of mistakes you have made in your past, but it seems so impossible that someone like you could make mistakes. You never let people make you angry or say hurtful words. Instead you treat everyone as if they were your best friend and you've known them forever. You are always happy, cheering everyone on, and making sure everyone knows the love God has for them.

I've never been one to like men because I always feel like they are going to hurt me, but you have proved me wrong in all aspects. You could never hurt anyone, especially my mom and I. You welcomed us into your family with no hesitations and came into ours with open arms. You make us your top priority and genuinely seem to cherish every moment we spend as a family. While most college students love to be out on a Friday night, I love being home with you and mom playing Clue at all hours of the night.

While having a step-parent come into the picture was at first one of the scariest thoughts, it has since turned into one of the biggest blessings God has brought around. I am looking forward to having you around in my life, expanding our bond, and playing tennis on the weekends. Many of the events a biological parent should be at, I would rather you there instead. As I make my way into a future full of big events, it is you I am expecting to see in the crowd.