When I decided to go through sorority recruitment, I never thought I would find my home. I didn’t think I would fit in, and I especially didn’t think that I would enjoy being a part of a sorority. But the moment I stepped foot into Alpha Chi Omega, it changed my life. I know that’s cheesy, but I have so much to be thankful for because of it.

It gave me my best friends, and I don’t think I would be who I am today without them. They’re always supportive, and always there for me whenever I need it. They have taught me so much about what it means to be a good sister, friend, and person. I have shared so many laughs, tears, and memories with these girls, and I will never forget any of it. Between mandatory events that we don’t want to get up early for and movie nights on Halloween, I am so thankful for all the friends I have made in Alpha Chi.

Alpha Chi has also held me accountable and taught me how to be a better me. The five values of Alpha Chi Omega are personal development, leadership, academic achievement, financial responsibility, and character. I have truly learned how to make each of these things an important part of my life. It had motivated me to aspire towards leadership opportunities, work harder in my classes, and try to be the best person I can possibly be.

Our community service is another thing that I really love about my sorority. Alpha Chi Omega’s national philanthropy is Domestic Violence Awareness, which is something very close to my heart. My chapter in particular is one of the few that gets to work directly with an organization that supports this cause, D.A.R.T. (Domestic Abuse Resistance Team). We hold several events throughout the year to benefit them, including the annual Walk a Mile in Their Shoes and “Throw Pies Not Punches.” This is so special to me, because I think that it’s amazing that so many young women care about this cause, and we can come together and bring light to such a negative topic.

Lastly, it has given me sisters. I come from a family of basically all boys besides my mother, and I have always wanted a sister. Now, I have almost 200. Each and every one of them is different and special in their own way, and we all can benefit from each other. Whether it be a new study partner or someone that understand the situation that you are going through, at least one of them will have your back.

I know that this is cliché, but I can honestly say that I have gained so much from my sorority. I can only hope to give back as much as it has given me. I am so thankful for all of it.