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Family Isn't Always Blood

And thank God it isn't.

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Family Isn't Always Blood
Olivia Jones

When I say the word "family," you probably picture a husband and a wife, a couple of kids, a cute puppy, and a white picket fence house, right? Although that may be true, I believe a family is so much more than that.

They say "Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what." They weren't wrong.

Recently my relationship has been strained with my biological family. I miss them very much and my heart aches because of it, but through all of this, my family has multiplied. I have gained countless support systems: new friends, new "parents", and new "grandparents" in the matter of just a few weeks. I have more people than I ever imagined possible helping me lift and carry my burden. More people loving me and caring for me than I have ever had before.

These people want me in their life no matter how many times I may screw up or do wrong against them. They want me in their lives because we can build each other up in ways that were not possible on our own, and I want them in my life for the same reasons. They are my rocks who I know with all of my heart won't let me down; my anchors who won't let me drown.

They are the same people who want to see me smile and would do anything and everything to see it happen. They know that it does not happen as often as it should, but they do everything in their power to see it, if even for a second. Whether it be through a simple note, a small bouquet of flowers, or a hug, they let me know and remind me that they are always here for me, always on my side.

I know and never have a doubt in my mind that these people love me, but they make sure that I know that. I know that they love me when I have broken down before them into a million pieces or I haven't treated them the way they deserve. They love me flaws and all. They love me unconditionally and for that, I couldn't be more grateful.

I am glad that my family is more than the parents, kids, dog, and a nice house. Family are the people who will be there through thick and thin to support you, guide you, and love you. I'm grateful that mine reaches far beyond my biological family. Family isn't always blood and thank God it isn't.

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