I see people doing things alone all the time, and yet the initial reaction is still the same for so many others: "Aw, they must be so lonely." Being alone doesn't make you lonely, just as being with a ton of people doesn't mean you can't stand to be alone. Here are a few of the reasons doing things by myself is perfectly fine to me.

1. I can people watch all I want without getting this look from whoever I'm with.

People are really interesting to observe and I don't think enough people realize that.

2. I get to decide when I'm ready to head out and when I'm ready to leave.

Some days I want to be out for 6 hours, others I'm done after an hour. And who gets to decide that? ME.

3. I can eat as much as I want without feeling pressured to finish around the same time as everyone around me.

I have an appetite. Sue me.

4. Some days, I just really enjoy silence.

I know I can talk your ear off, but sometimes saying nothing is okay.

5. I'm not always in the mood to entertain someone else.

This doesn't make me a crappy friend, this just means I'm okay with not forcing conversation 24/7.

6. Being alone gives me time to think and reflect.

A little "me time" never killed anyone.

7. Going out alone gives you confidence.

So many people view going out alone as a bold thing to do, because too many fear looking "lonely" or "unpopular." It's liberating to be alone and be comfortable with that.

8. I have just as much fun alone!

There's a certain sort of peacefulness that comes with being alone and still being happy.�