11 Things Boyfriends Say That Trigger Every Girlfriend In IMMEDIATELY
To all the boys out there... Choose your words carefully.
For those of you who are in a relationship or have been in one, you know how difficult a conversation can be where there are subpar responses. There are just some responses that shouldn't be said, especially if you don't want to get into an argument or heated discussion.
Here are 11 texts that most of us girls have received from their significant other... unfortunately.
"Sure."
This one gets me every time. "Sure" is the absolute worst response you can get. For example, what if I asked "Do you love me?" How would it feel to receive sure as an answer? Horrible. Just don't do it.
"Whatever you want."
Okay but... what do you want? This answer sucks because it makes me feel like my boyfriend is only doing it because I want to do it, not because he wants to.
"It's up to you."
Once again... Is it because I want to or is it because you want to also? Moreover, why do I have to make the decision? What if I don't want to decide?
"Relax."
No. Just don't do it. Unless you want your girlfriend to explode... just avoid at all costs.
"Calm down."
"Calm down" and "relax" basically go hand in hand. Never ever tell your girl to calm down.
"Ok."
Ok... What?
"I'm just bad at texting."
So basically... your girl just isn't important enough to receive a text back. Noted.
"I guess."
You guess what? It's either a yes or a no.
"Fine" or "It's fine."
But... is it really though?
"Yeah."
Please give some more effort. No one likes one-word responses.
"Are you mad?"
Hmm, I feel like if you have to even ask, there's a good chance your girl is mad.
A Step By Step Tutorial On How To Discover Your Passion
No, not all of us know how to do that on our own.
With everyone saying "follow your dream" and "pursue your passion," the pressure can be quite high when you still need to figure out exactly what that passion is. That is, until now...
Take a BuzzFeed quiz
Preferably try something like "What career should you actually have?" If you find yourself taking the "What kind of bread are you" quiz, you're probably too far down the rabbit hole.
Google search the top paying professions
Hmm... lawyer or doctor, which will it be?
Convince yourself that money doesn't matter when pursuing your passion
Money doesn't mean happiness, right?
Ask your family members for their opinion
After all, your family knows you best and can probably guide you in the right direction.
Ignore your family's opinion
Shout out something along the lines of "Only I can discover the right path for me!" and retreat back to another BuzzFeed quiz.
Go to college and pick a major that sounds interesting
The opportunities are endless!
Change your major
And I mean endless...
Repeat step 7 as many times as necessary
Seriously...endless.
Pick one and tell your friends and family (and yourself) that you found your calling
Whether it means college or not, find something you truly enjoy and make the most of it.
But always remember that passions can change and evolve
Just because you start down a certain path doesn't mean that you need to stay on it without turning around or taking a different road. The more you explore, the more you learn. That's all part of the fun.