We all know that taking that step from high school to college is huge. It's gigantic. Especially for an only child like me, who is very used to all the fussing and attention. Anyway, let me just say, it's hard. Incredibly hard. But there are few things that will change, as they do, you must as well.
5. Be your own person
There's no pretending anymore. High school's over and it's time to be real, to face the world, to make your choices as you please, to know what's best for you. You're getting older and this the very beginning of your adult life. Your future is being shaped right now. Mould yourself well and if someone doesn't agree with that, then that's their problem.
4. Explore
College is the time for taking chances. No one is gonna tell you how to live your life anymore. This is your time. Try new things. Do the things you've always wanted. Don't hold yourself back. Don't be afraid. The world is yours.
3. Learn to be by yourself
I won't lie, this one is by far the hardest. You will break down, not once, not twice, but multiple times. Leaving the safe haven your parents created for you is hard. Having your own place, doing everything by yourself can be overwhelming. You must learn to be independent, to become your own best friend. Go shop alone, go to a restaurant alone; it's a part of growing up. No, it isn't sad or pathetic. Enjoy yourself.
2. Social life
I hate to break to you, but making friends is going to be much much harder than it was. Don't get me wrong, you will find people to hang out with, but making real friends is going to take time. As a kid, you were exposed to the same people everyday. You were still growing up and forming yourself on a greater extent than you are today so it was easier to gel in with people. You're more mature now; you posess your own opinions, values and beliefs. To find someone who respects and maybe even has the same perspective will be a task. It's okay, you will find them. Just give it time.
1. Give yourself a break
Cut yourself some slack, kid. You've gotten this far. It's big okay? Look at you doing life yourself. Know that you still have a long way to go. Learn everyday and chase your goals with an intense passion and love. Wake up everyday with the thought of it. And on the days you feel like you just can't do it anymore? Cry, all you want. Make yourself a hot drink, eat some comfort food, take a shower and smile. Tomorrow's a new day. And you've done so much. Know your worth.
