In memory of Taylor
For many people, a cat is "just a cat" and nothing more. Only animal lovers know the significant impact that their pet had on their lives. Animals become a central part of people's lives; they become their furry family members. Pets are an important part of a family. They pass no judgement and bring companionship, unconditional love, and comfort into a person's life.
When a beloved pet dies, it is a traumatic loss. Grief, anger, denial and depression are common emotions people may feel during this time of loneliness. Animal lovers grieve over a pet the way they would grieve over a relative, so it is expected to feel overwhelmed when trying to deal with the loss.
Pets become part of their owner's daily routine. Personally, my morning routine was as follows: Wake up, feed the cat, scoop the litter box, get ready for work, give the cat fresh water, give the cat a kiss goodbye. Owners often celebrated their pets' birthday, took multiple pictures of them each day, and confided in their loyal companion. Each day brought a new opportunity for a pet and their owner to grow closer together, so after many years spent together, a person simply can't imagine life without their fur-baby.
The best way to cope is to be honest about your feelings. Honoring the pet's life is another important step. Don't just focus on the depressing days at the end; remember when the pet made you laugh or when it snuggled up next to you after a stressful day. The amount of love you felt for your pet was the same amount they felt for you, their owner, their world. Without you, life would not have been possible for them. Be proud to have been their caretaker and to have been able to give them a life full of love during their years with you. I picture my cat in the arms of an angel, my aunt, who was the biggest animal lover I ever knew. I find comfort in knowing that my Taylor is no longer in pain and is resting by my angel's side. Think of your furry companion in a happy place, doing what they love, and you will be able to start accepting their passing.
There aren't any words that will make the pain go away, so just remember that time with heal your wound. Just remember that you will see each other again one day at the Rainbow Bridge. My deepest condolences are with those who have ever lost a loved one. May you find strength to move on and never forget to cherish the memories you made with your furry friend.
Taylor,
Mommy misses you every day. Thank you for the countless laughs and "advice" you meowed in response to my rants. You have truly blessed my life and no one will ever replace you. You are "no longer by my side, but forever in my heart." I will always love you my motorboat Lu. I'll meet you at the Rainbow Bridge. XO
