Things Extraverts Take For Granted But Introverts Struggle With
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5 Things Extraverts Take For Granted But Introverts Struggle With Every Day

Probably the most stressful part about being an introvert in this society is being completely concerned about every little thing I do.

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Being an introvert in a majorly extroverted society comes with its own challenges. Most of the time, you don't think the same as other people and it can be a struggle sometimes. There are some things that come with being an introvert that many are not aware of.

1. It isn't hard for me to hold conversations with people, it's hard for me to get them started.

For some reason, the aspect of having a genuine conversation with someone isn't all that difficult once I get comfortable talking. It is the initial start of that conversation that I struggle with. What should I talk about? Is it weird if I just say hi? What if they don't want to talk to me? I cannot help but find it hard to start the conversation in the first place. Sometimes this makes it hard to meet new people and build new relationships.

2. I mostly tend to enjoy the company of those who are meaningful to me.

Hanging out with just anyone is not something I am good at. Unless I consider you close to me, I just cannot get comfortable with us being the presence of each other. It may be because it goes back to the trouble of starting conversations, but I just feel awkward no matter what I do. Until one of us breaks that barrier, there is a good chance I will not find myself getting situated around you.

3. Keeping to myself allows me to be a better student.

When you're not the most outgoing in social settings, it makes it easy to find time to be by yourself. This makes it easier for me to find opportunities to be a good student and focus on my own work. I usually do not struggle with fitting in school work, its built into my day.

4. Unlike most people, I have to recover from big social events.

For an introvert, too much chaos or social interaction can be exhausting. I usually always have to find some free time for myself after these events to decompress and relax. Unless I am completely comfortable with you, there is a good chance I'll need to take a break and be alone.

5. I overthink absolutely everything.

Probably the most stressful part about being an introvert in this society is being completely concerned about every little thing I do. From the way I walk to the things I say, I am always overthinking. It is a struggle to be constantly worried about the smallest things, but it is something I can not help but do.

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These are just a few of the things that come with me being an introvert. It can be a setback to struggle in most social situations, but it is something you learn to deal with and maybe even overcome.

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