Young relationships can be tricky.

There is a chance for naivety or immaturity, especially in the first stages. Although in some cases, as time progresses those unproductive feelings can develop into something mature. This is undoubtedly possible if the two people allow themselves to grow up individually and not as a whole. This goes for both work, social, and personal goals.

Despite the chances of a successful relationship, many friends and family members might despise young love (or any relationship for that matter) due to three core conditions:

1. Over-Protectiveness

2. Harsh Pre - Judgement

3. Lack of Success from the other side

These are all understandable, yet unproductive feelings when it comes to supporting whoever it is that is in that (unsupported) relationship. More often then not, the individual receiving such hate and criticism will most likely cut the haters off, leaving only a damaged relationship on the other side. Of course, doing that is not the best way to handle the situation. Communication and coming to a balanced conclusion is necessary.

Caring for someone who you think is in a "bad" relationship is needed, but there also as to be a chance for time to grow as well as getting to fully know the other persons side of the story.

On the contrary, there are some red flags that loved ones should look out for when it comes to young love:

1. Excessive Fighting

2. Drug use

3. Utter disrespect (in conversation, how they talk to their partner and family/friends around)

These could be racial remarks or gender differences (I'm the man and I will have control or I am a woman and I will use my emotions to manipulate you). If these three circumstances are clearly seen then of course, do whatever it is you can to get the other person to see these dangerous conditions. Although no matter what (is they stay or leave the person) stay by their side no matter what.

A moment in their relationship will come when they will realize the damaging conditions and will need a supportive person to help.