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This Is Your Life, Why Care About Others Gossiping?

Don't you get tired of the fake rumors around you?

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This Is Your Life, Why Care About Others Gossiping?

We are living in a society where people like to judge each other. Some people have a good intention, but some have the purpose of drowning others to lift themselves up. In the midst of this life, you only live your life and don't mind too much about the comments, judgments, and hatreds.

When it comes to love, you often get words like: "Why do you love that person?" "How can you date someone like that?" or "Do you have enough people to love?"

In fact, the choice is always yours, you can have a right or wrong relationship, this is not foreseeable. So, if you have a strong and firm feeling on someone, just do it even if people say something. As long as you feel happy, that person sincerely treats you, you wholeheartedly love him or her, and your love has no effect on social morals, it's totally fine.

Ignore all the gossips and don't let it affect your feelings.

This does not mean that you love blindly or without reason, but that you believe in the love you have chosen. Even if the relationship ended up badly later, do not be sad or regretful that in the past you did not listen to everyone, because at least you were happy with your life, at that moment.

Not just love, it is easy for someone to judge you, from every aspect of life. It can be your studying, the way you live, your personality, your voice, your appearance... But all that rumors or judgments cannot tell who you really are.

There is more than one tattoo on your body, you might have a strong personality, and this is fine. It doesn't mean that you are a naughty, careless, and fearful person. Each tattoo for each person has a different meaning. Because you do not understand the meaning of the tattoo, don't evaluate that person to be swearing. My roommate has three tattoos of the birthday of her father, her mother and her brother, as she is an international student and she is always far from home. Those tattoos are important to her, and I can tell what a lovely girl she is.

Each person has a different perspective, a way of life, a style, so don't impose your personal thoughts on a completely different person.

In this life, you just need to be yourself, do the things you like and don't need to be afraid or worry about the gossips and comments around. We can do what we love, as long as it doesn't affect the people around us. Know how to choose the right advice to improve and ignore the comments that are only meant to offend, your life will become much more fun, comfortable and simple.

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