It's not easy being with a girl who has little to no emotions. I can almost guarantee you that Valentine's Day is this girls least favorite holiday. With all the love and hearts and pink and mushy grossness she just wants to stay at home on the couch and binge watch her newest Netflix show.
First and foremost DO NOT expect anything special. Just trust me, don't get your hopes up. She's not just pretending to hate Valentine's Day just so she can surprise you with something romantic, she really just wants to sit on the couch.
Just because she hates the day doesn't mean she doesn't care about you. I know it's weird not to spoil your girl on Valentine's Day but she doesn't want it. She's not being ungrateful or trying to make you feel unwanted she just doesn't like having to express her emotions. Especially when she feels like she's being forced to show them. By you just hanging out for the day doing absolutely nothing special is more than enough for her, the fact that you can respect how much she hates Valentine's Day is the nicest thing you could have done for her that day.
DO NOT make her feel bad for hating this day. It's who she is, she's not doing it because she's in a bad mood that day or just doesn't feel like going out. If you are going to get her a present for her please, make it something very small like flowers or chocolate (definitely chocolate because everyone loves food) because she probably will stick to the no present deal. Don't make her feel bad for not getting you anything when you agreed on no presents.
Lastly, enjoy the day. Of course it might not be the way you wanted to spend the day of love with your favorite girl. But, you know she is happy and has a smile on her face.
