In my opinion, one of the most frightening things about life after high school is the 'what ifs.' What if I lose my job? What if I have to drop out of college? What if something happens and I'm left unable to provide myself with the things I need to live on? What if I'm so busy with school that I can't work as much as I'd like and I'm left with small paychecks, yet big bills?

This is where I end up extremely blessed with the parents I have. After taking on a new roommate and switching apartments, there were some moving expenses that I did not have the money to cover. I was constantly worrying over if I'd have to back out of the new apartment and move back home to attend school near my hometown. Fortunate for me though, my parents wanted to help out. I know how this seems. It makes me look like a girl who has everything handed to her by her parents, not having to work hard at all for anything she wants. But for those who know me, this is not at all true.

But the purpose of this article isn't to sing my praises. This is a thank you for everything my parents have ever done for me.

Both my mom and my dad know that I'm only good with written words, so they don't actually hear often how much their appreciated. But every chance I get, I like to tell them through words. This is one of those times.

Thank you mom and dad for letting me pursue my dreams and letting me know that you're there if I ever need you. I am so very fortunate that you have taught me to be independent on my own, but be humble enough to accept help when I need it. Thank you for not letting me sink when I let so much debris puncture my being. Instead of watching me drown, you both were busy tossing buckets of water overboard and patching up the damage. You have been so supportive of what I want in life and have helped me get on track when I didn't know exactly how to start.

I know that as a parent, it's technically your job to provide for me. But for a lot of people, that stops once they leave high school or turn 18. I know some people think that I'm too privileged and will turn out spoiled rotten from everything you've given me. But you've taught me to be humble and kind, and to accept things with an open and thankful heart and mind. I think this is one of the most important lessons I can learn from you both.

Thank you mom for working extra shifts at the hospital just so you can send me a little extra if I need it. Thank you dad for teaching me the value of money and how to spend and save and budget, and for teaching me that it's completely okay to spend a little extra to treat yourself. Sometimes it feels like I'll never be able to repay you for being exceptional parents, but thankfully I have a whole lifetime to figure out how.

I love you both so much. The boys and I are probably the luckiest kids on the planet to have you. I know I don't say it a lot, but I want you to always be able to read that you are so appreciated and loved.

Love,

Boo