Why Speaking Words of Encouragement is essential

Why Speaking Words of Encouragement is essential

Our Heavenly Father tells us to speak life into this world - so we should


One of my favorite songs is "Speak Life" by Toby Mac. I think the song's opening statement is awesome because it's true. He sings that "Some days life feels perfect, other days, it just ain't working." It can get a little chaotic on earth, whether it is looking for a job or be searching for a way to comfort a crying friend.

It's not easy to be encouraging when life gets difficult and when nightmares are more common than dreams. But the right words, especially words guided by the Holy Spirit, can speak life into any situation.

Are we encouraging ourselves through the dark days? Are we encouraging others through their dark days?

I've seen the right words spark the light of hope inside depressed eyes. On multiple occasions, the right words during a sorority sleepover have calmed me into a peaceful sleep during a restless week. Every time this happens, I thank God. Our Father is so good to send His peace to us through others' words.

The Bible talks about the power of speech all the time. Proverbs is full of information about it, and so are many other books.

Below are some Bible verses that talk about the power of the tongue:

A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good, but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil; for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks. (Luke 6:45)

From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. This need not be so, my brothers. (James 3:10)

Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who choose one shall it eats fruit. (Proverbs 18:21)

No foul language should come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for needed edification, that it may impart grace to those who hear. (Ephesians 4:29)

A soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse one breaks the spirit. (Proverbs 15:4)

Know this, my dear brothers: everyone should be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath, for the wrath of a man does not accomplish the righteousness of God. (James 1:19)

One who slanders reveals secrets, but a trustworthy person keeps a confidence. (Proverbs 11:13)

Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up. (Proverbs 12:25)

Sometimes, we do not speak up (when we know we should) because we worry our words will not be enough. Sometimes we worry that we won't be understood.

We must not be afraid. A responsibility of being a Christian is to assist others. If we see someone is struggling, or in need of a simple pep talk, we should act accordingly.

It is an act of love to speak the truth. It is an act of love to speak into a frustrated, mad, or anxious heart and remind them that Christ has not let them suffer in their pain alone. Christ is right there and trying to help in the best ways he can… and one of those ways is by encouraging you to speak to that person. The Holy Spirit will assist you in this noble act - so if you're not sure what to say, just ask the Holy Spirit for help and you'll get what you need.

Everyone needs a little hope now and then, and it is vital to the church that we provide hopeful reminders to each other. That's why we aren't meant to be alone. We are called to live in a community to love each other for so many reasons, and encouraging each other on the hard days is one of them.

Illuminate the darkness of the world with the light of Christ. Speak about Jesus Christ and hope will reign instead of hopelessness. Speak life into this world, whether it's to a stranger, friend, or family member. It can be as simple as a super sweet hello, or a sincere "Thank you" to the sad barista at the coffee shop. You can do this.

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10 Things Someone Who Grew Up In A Private School Knows

The 10 things that every private school-goer knows all too well.


1. Uniforms

Plaid. The one thing that every private school-goer knows all too well. It was made into jumpers, skirts, shorts, scouts, hair ties, basically anything you could imagine, the school plaid was made into. You had many different options on what to wear on a normal day, but you always dreaded dress uniform day because of skirts and ballet flats. But it made waking up late for school a whole lot easier.

2. New people were a big deal

New people weren't a big thing. Maybe one or two a year to a grade, but after freshman year no one new really showed up, making the new kid a big deal.

3. You've been to school with most of your class since Kindergarten

Most of your graduating class has been together since Kindergarten, maybe even preschool, if your school has it. They've become part of your family, and you can honestly say you've grown up with your best friends.

4. You've had the same teachers over and over

Having the same teacher two or three years in a row isn't a real surprise. They know what you are capable of and push you to do your best.

5. Everyone knows everybody. Especially everyone's business.

Your graduating class doesn't exceed 150. You know everyone in your grade and most likely everyone in the high school. Because of this, gossip spreads like wildfire. So everyone knows what's going on 10 minutes after it happens.

6. Your hair color was a big deal

If it's not a natural hair color, then forget about it. No dyeing your hair hot pink or blue or you could expect a phone call to your parents saying you have to get rid of it ASAP.

7. Your school isn't like "Gossip Girl"

There is no eating off campus for lunch or casually using your cell phone in class. Teachers are more strict and you can't skip class or just walk right off of campus.

8. Sports are a big deal

Your school is the best of the best at most sports. The teams normally go to the state championships. The rest of the school that doesn't play sports attends the games to cheer on the teams.

9. Boys had to be clean-shaven, and hair had to be cut

If you came to school and your hair was not cut or your beard was not shaved, you were written up and made to go in the bathroom and shave or have the head of discipline cut your hair. Basically, if you know you're getting written up for hair, it's best just to check out and go get a hair cut.

10. Free dress days were like a fashion show

Wearing a school uniform every day can really drive you mad. That free dress day once a month is what you lived for. It was basically a fashion show for everyone, except for those upperclassmen who were over everything and just wore sweat pants.

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