Throughout the years, Carrie Bradshaw and her friends have inspired me in many ways. The real life issues that these characters face are so relatable to modern day women. Having a passion for fashion and writing has made me feel a sense of connection to Carrie. "Sex and the City" has taught me some valuable life lessons.
1. Never downplay your accomplishments for others.
You worked so hard for your success, and you deserve it. So enjoy it.
2. For reasons unknown to you, people will be mean.
People will dislike you for the smallest reasons, don't be afraid to stick up for yourself.
3. Overspending has consequences.
We all love to buy things and sometimes we get a weird rush from it. But beware of losing sight of your priorities and spending that pay check on gorgeous shoes.
4. Breakups hurt.
Most of us have experienced either one, or in my case, multiple horrible breakups. The ones that leave you feeling empty and shattered. Sometimes love is not as easy as we want it to be.
5. Learn when it is time to cut ties.
Whether it is an ex or just a toxic friend, we have to learn to walk away. You do not have to be mean about it, but you do need to realize when someone just isn't a good addition to your life. If they make you feel bad more than good, then it might be time to say bye bye.
6. Friends sometimes don't provide much help.
Everyone has their own problems and issues that they have to figure out. Most of the time your friends are just as lost and confused about them as you are. Although friends often provide good advice, they aren't anymore knowledgeable than you. Sometimes you just have to trust your gut, even if they disagree.
7. But best friends will always be there.
Find those people that will support you and help you improve. They won't always be nice but they will always respect you. Those are the friends that will last a lifetime.
8. Don't dwell on the past.
Things happen. Mistakes will be made. Don't say no because of fear to fail because those will be the regrets you keep. Enjoy life and do not let the "what if" thoughts stop you from opportunities.
9. Experiment with clothes.
Fashion is suppose to be a form of expression, there are rules about fit but it revolves around what looks great on you. Wear what makes you feel fabulous.
10. Love yourself.
As cliche as it is, be happy with yourself and never stop working toward your dreams. Never settle because then you won't enjoy life for all its surprises.
