6 Signs He's Just Not That Into You
Start writing a post
Relationships

6 Signs He's Just Not That Into You

Don't fall for his tricks, you don't need a jokester in your life.

1018
6 Signs He's Just Not That Into You
Unsplash

There are often ways guys will signal to a girl that he is not interested. And more often than not, girls are too love blind to see the signals. There comes a time that the situation will get so confusing that the girl ends up not knowing what to do and end up here, reading articles about their situation.

Not to worry! I've been in one of those situations before and I'm here to alleviate any reader of any boy curiosities. Here are the six signs that he is not that into you.

1. Left on read

Being left on 'read' may just be one of the most obvious signals, but its something that girls just seem to miss. Being left on read is an easy way for a guy to tell the girl that he doesn't want to talk. That you are not worth their time. Trust me, if this boy was interested he would message you back as soon as you sent the message.

2. Doesn't engage in a conversation

If you end up putting more effort and time into a conversation while he doesn't, it's not worth it! The situation may be something such as being out for lunch and he is on his phone the whole time that you are eating. He apparently must have something else much more important on his cell phone than listening to you speak.

3. He's a no-show

No-show is just a slang term for someone who ends up bailing every time you decide to meet up. He either tells you he isn't going to be able to make it because something came up, or he doesn't tell you at all and ends up having you wait at the location. The exception is if he tells you he's sorry he won't be able to make it and asks to re-schedule for another day in the week. If you are hoping for a relationship, you may want to schedule something in the daytime.

4. Gives excuses 99% of the time

People who give excuses simply feel like doing something else sounds more fun than spending time with you. It's either that, or he is too busy all 24 hours in a day. Don't fall for his tricks. You don't need a jokester in your life.

5. Hits you up with the 'WYD' at midnight

If you're trying to get a relationship with this guy, and he hits you up at midnight, it just indicates that he wants one thing only (and it's not a relationship). When a guy hits up a girl at midnight, he is looking for a booty call. This is an obvious one but thought I'd still put it in this list.

6. Doesn't send the first message

If he isn't sending that first message to start a conversation or a phone call, then he is simply not thinking about you. When a guy is interested, he will do almost anything to try to talk to you, even if it's over a simple text message.

I hope that this helps you in any boy troubles. Remember to not settle for less. Because you are worth way more than you know it!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

87463
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

53708
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments