I've heard it before and been in similar situations myself - you know, the ones where a guy is genuinely upset with you because you wouldn't give him what he wanted. Whether it was pictures, sex, or something along those lines; I've heard it all. A girl will come back from a date all upset, hurt, and defeated after being left to feel useless when she couldn't meet a man's (or shall we say, less than a man's) standard of what a first date (or any date entails).

While I won't sit here and preach about when sex is appropriate, I will, however, say that it is NEVER appropriate when perceived as a means of "breaking even". No one ever OWES you sex (or pictures, etc.). And I'm so sick of girls being treated as an object that you take from as you please and as you're owed.

Men - hear this. If you are bold enough to assume your date, girlfriend, etc. owes you a night, or if you think you deserve it, then by no means do you deserve the woman you're speaking to, dating, or flirting with. Likewise, you are nowhere near the man you may think you are. Because a man protects and is patient. A boy destroys and takes what isn't his.

So girls, refuse to let men make you feel useless when they're desires are let down. THEY'RE the ones that are useless in your life. And men, stop expecting things and inquiring things from women who shouldn't even have to put up with you. Sex is something intimately and lovingly given. It's not a check or tip that you owe someone, so lets stop treating it like it is.