As I've gotten older, I find myself reflecting on past and present friendships. Some have gotten stronger, while some have faded into pleasant but distant memories. That's the thing about friendship -- it is a gift that is so wonderful, but we must remember it can be fleeting as well. When some friendships weaken, it is not necessarily a bad thing. People can grow apart, but that does not mean the friendship did not have purpose.
Being in college, I have made entirely new friends that have helped me create some of my best memories. I am sure that these people will be in my life long past college, but I absolutely cannot forget about my best friend from back home. We went to middle and high school together, and we still have to get together whenever we are both on break. High school was great because of my BFF. Who else would laugh at my jokes or help me with pre-calculus? Here are some reasons why your best friend from back home is still the best friend you've ever had.
1. They already know you and like you.
Not getting along with anyone at college? Text your bestie back home who is sure to promptly respond and tell you how they cannot wait to see you over winter break.
2. You always have someone to appreciate your social media updates.
Since you don't see your BFF every day anymore, it's nice to have the internet to stay updated on each other's lives. Seeing their happy and funny posts makes you still feel connected to them when you're away.
3. You will forever laugh at the same inside jokes.
We played Just Dance on my Xbox once, yet we still mention the silly songs in almost all of our conversations. Oh yeah, did I mention we played it FIVE years ago? The inside jokes never die.
4. You are able to grow with one another.
Being apart during the school year means all kinds of changes are happening to both of you. When you finally see one another, you adapt to those changes. You catch up and your friendship is magical and it's so so so great.
5. They remember the things anyone else would forget.
Whenever I had sleepovers with my BFF, we would give each other arm scratches. Not back scratches, arm scratches. "Hey, remember when we would scratch each other's arms before bed?" Yes, yes, I do. Thank you for the arm scratches.
6. You always have at least one person (besides family) to see on breaks.
"When are you coming home?" "Can you hang out this day?" "I miss you and can't wait to see you!" "So we hung out today...wanna hang out two days from now, too?"
7. Physical distance ain't got nothin' on your friendship.
No matter how long you go without a hug from your best friend, when you are finally back together it's like nothing has changed. They know all your quirks (because honestly, how could they forget?) and it always feels like no time has passed. You know each other too well to forget how dang great your friendship is.
Dedicated to my twinny and best friend from back home, Anna. Love you too much, so I wrote an article about it.
