Sometimes people tend to overlook the things that don't directly affect them. It's sad to think about but it is also harshly accurate. With this thought in mind, I was walking through my dining hall last week and realized an unfortunate reality.

The usual lack of respect for the staff, or any worker in general, is disgusting and even disturbing at times. I'm not sure how people think that what they are doing is right or even how they sleep at night, but I think many people need a lesson or two on basic human decency. Especially, when related to staff and workers who are apparently "only there to do their job."

First, they are human beings. They deserve to be treated with respect regardless of what job they are working or where they come from. No one has the right to order them around, demand that they give them food or threaten to tell their boss that they, as a student, only received five tater tots at the dining hall while Bobby got six. I highly doubt these people want to hear your unreasonable complaints because you had a "bad day."

Instead of approaching these staff members with hostility because you aren't too happy about the food quality on your college campus, treat them as you would treat a friend or family member. Ask them how they are doing when they ask you. The reply to "How are you doing?" is not "I want mashed potatoes only." If you're not willing to be respectful then you should take a closer look at yourself and truly ask what's going wrong in your life. These people aren't punching bags and they don't deserve to be treated like one.

Finally, remember that they are only benefiting you by serving you food. They are not your greatest enemy and they didn't betray you. What did a dining hall staff member ever truly do to you? The fact that your pasta is subpar is most likely beyond their control. I'm sure they are incredibly sorry for your "loss."

Everyone needs a job to provide themselves, and/or their family, with income. The person you are badgering and treating like some sort of peasant also has a personal life and their own worries.

So next time you are in your dining hall, or anywhere around campus, and see a staff member or worker, smile and appreciate them. They're doing their job and it's most likely benefiting you.