Surround yourself with positivity and resources.

I’m all for the American mantra of the self-made man, if you work hard enough you’ll eventually make it. Sometimes though, that just isn’t enough.

This attitude has been perpetuated throughout generations of americana media. Books, documentaries, and film about people who came from nothing to acquire great wealth and money.

Wether you’re willing to admit it or not, I would put money on the fact there’s been at least one point in your life where you’ve had to rely on someone else. Help with school, work, finding a place to live, fixing up a car, we live in a community, we’re in this together. It isn’t a sign of weakness to ask others for help, there is nothing wrong with it.

This is by no means the same as the concept of "getting everything handed to you." Life isn't black and white, but for some reason the only two work and life ethics out there are the ones listed above. You can ask for help without being helpless and spoiled.

I would be lying if I said I'd be where I am, all by myself. I would be nothing without my parents, my friends, co-workers and professors at school. Having a support system is vital to success, regardless of goals (unless your goal is living in the mountains by yourself, but you probably wouldn't be reading this then).

Having help hasn't spoiled me and my life has not been handed to me on a silver platter. I work my ass off, I finance my travels and activities. But I give credit where credit is due, and it's such a blessing to have supporting parents.

It is okay to swallow your pride and ask for help. We're in this life together.