We often have days where it feels as if our world is caving in around us. During these moments we are lost and have nowhere to go.
A lot of times, we think that just because we are having a bad day, our life is terrible, but that is not the case! We need to not dwell on the unhappy moments in our life. We chose our own destiny. As a human being, you have complete and full control over your mood and attitude. More times than not, it is easy to be upset or angry about an issue HOURS after.
My question is: how is this beneficial? God created us with a purpose and we are not fulfilling that purpose if we don't learn to see the good in situations! Everything that life has thrown at you, whether it be losing a friend or something as simple as not being able to go on a trip you're interested in, has created the beautiful person you have grown to be today.
There are reasons for everything no matter if you are able to see them or not. I have grown to realize that at times, it is much more simple to put things in God's hands. Let God redeem you. In today’s society, seldom do we see the beauty in ourselves. Rather, we chose to point out every single flaw we see and that is completely normal, but when we do this we lose happiness.
The key to happiness is loving ourselves. Self-love is crucial! At times, it is difficult to see the beauty in ourselves and that is okay! It is human nature to look in a mirror and pick out every single imperfection that to a stranger, would go unnoticed.
If we stop spending so much time picking out the imperfections and focus on the beautiful things, inside AND out, then we will see a change in our attitude. A quick tip: if an imperfection is found, try to list the pros of it! Just because you are blindsided by it, does not mean that a stranger will think that! Spend a few minutes a day reminding yourself of your self-worth.
You are beautiful and you are loved! God created you just the way you are and you should take advantage of the time He spent making you. If you are having a bad day think of how extraordinary and special you are and smile! Making yourself smile is known to have a positive effect on your mood.
Once again, it is okay to have a bad day here and there but if you can remind yourself of how strong, beautiful and empowering you are as an individual then do it!
