Are You On A Roller Coaster Or Is It Finals Week?

Are You On A Roller Coaster Or Is It Finals Week?

As Effie Trinket once said, "May the odds be ever in your favor especially on this wild ride."

It's finals weeks and whether you are a freshman taking your first set of college finals ever, or a senior who's graduating and taking their last final it's stressful. Taking finals is never an easy thing and when they are stretched over a whole week there is a roller coaster of emotions that follow them.

1. First stop stress.

The first emotion we all experience is stress. Stress of if we are studying the right thing, if we are studying enough, if we are studying too much. The worse stress is the stress of not knowing exactly what to expect. Whether you are eighteen taking the very first final or a senior taking your very last final the stress of not knowing exactly what to expect will always be there.

2. Overwhelmed is becoming an understatement.

The college gives a whole week for professors to torture us with finals. Some students have a final every day, all in one day, or all online. No matter how they are taken or when the are taken when looking at a planner the overwhelming sensation never goes away. The feeling that studying and tests are drowning you never go away until you take the final test your senior year.

3. Tired, Weary, Exhausted.

How many words are there to describe tired? Physically, mentally, emotionally? It does not matter students and professors alike are just plain tired. The first final you take me be on Monday but once it's over the exhaustion sets in and it does not cease until a week later when you've slept until noon everyday. The weariness is hard to overcome but it is possible and we will overcome, but don't speak to us until next week just to be sure.

4. On edge? Me too!

Are you on the brink of jumping off a bridge, cliff, even a house? Join the club. Three finals down one to go... I still want to jump off the bridge. The edginess is not the good kind and it's caused by stress. All students are on edge until those final grades come through. Once you've received the grade wished for you can then back away from the edge and come back to it next semester.

5. Happiness really does exist.

Finals are over and grades are in. Didn't get the grade wished for... Who cares because we are just ecstatic the tests are over and we do not have to look at another set of study note cards for at least two months. The happiness of being done with the test, class, and school in general for a month is the best feeling there is.

The roller coaster of finals continues on for the next round of student in the next semester, but always remember you can get through it. Just believe you can do it and you can!

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The Truth About Young Marriage

Different doesn't mean wrong.

When I was a kid, I had an exact picture in my mind of what my life was going to look like. I was definitely not the kind of girl who would get married young, before the age of 25, at least.

And let me tell you, I was just as judgmental as that sentence sounds.

I could not wrap my head around people making life-long commitments before they even had an established life. It’s not my fault that I thought this way, because the majority opinion about young marriage in today’s society is not a supportive one. Over the years, it has become the norm to put off marriage until you have an education and an established career. Basically, this means you put off marriage until you learn how to be an adult, instead of using marriage as a foundation to launch into adulthood.

When young couples get married, people will assume that you are having a baby, and they will say that you’re throwing your life away — it’s inevitable.

It’s safe to say that my perspective changed once I signed my marriage certificate at the age of 18. Although marriage is not always easy and getting married at such a young age definitely sets you up for some extra challenges, there is something to be said about entering into marriage and adulthood at the same time.

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Getting married young does not mean giving up your dreams. It means having someone dream your dreams with you. When you get lost along the way, and your dreams and goals seem out of reach, it’s having someone there to point you in the right direction and show you the way back. Despite what people are going to tell you, it definitely doesn’t mean that you are going to miss out on all the experiences life has to offer. It simply means that you get to share all of these great adventures with the person you love most in the world.

And trust me, there is nothing better than that. It doesn’t mean that you are already grown up, it means that you have someone to grow with.

You have someone to stick with you through anything from college classes and changing bodies to negative bank account balances.

You have someone to sit on your used furniture with and talk about what you want to do and who you want to be someday.

Then, when someday comes, you get to look back on all of that and realize what a blessing it is to watch someone grow. Even after just one year of marriage, I look back and I am incredibly proud of my husband. I’m proud of the person he has become, and I’m proud of what we have accomplished together. I can’t wait to see what the rest of our lives have in store for us.

“You can drive at 16, go to war at 18, drink at 21, and retire at 65. So who can say what age you have to be to find your one true love?" — One Tree Hill
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My First Year Of College Wasn’t Great And That’s Okay

I didn’t adjust as well as I thought I would, but I made it.


Everyone always raves about how much they loved their freshman year of college. The independence, the parties, meeting all these new people from different places. It's a big milestone in your life. But not everyone has an amazing first year. And I'm one of those people.

Don't get me wrong. I was so excited about college. Finally getting to be on my own, experiencing all these new things. I even met people in my class before we moved in. And the first month was a blast...but then it wasn't anymore.

Eventually, I slid into this “funk", you could say. I was depressed. I never wanted to leave my bed. Some nights, I didn't even wanna eat dinner. And soon, my friends noticed but soon just stopped inviting me out.

At first, they still would, even though the answer was always no. But I guess they got bored and tired of me always saying no.

Soon, I didn't feel like I even had any friends and at one point, I even found myself debating going home to avoid being alone in my room all weekend. I would force myself to make plans, but found myself not wanting to go out because I got ignored every time I did. It wasn't worth it.

I was homesick, isolated, and just wanted to fit in.

When the year finally came to an end, I couldn't be happier. But now that it is over and I'm home, I realize how much I miss the people that were there for me. The people that came into my life unexpectedly, but it was hard for me to really recognize they care about me.

I absolutely hated my freshman year of college. Yeah, it started out good and I found my sorority, but I never felt like I was wanted anywhere. I felt so alone. I became so incredibly isolated and distant and it took a drastic toll on me as a person.

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This being said, my first year might not have been what I thought or hoped for. But I can truly say I am excited to see what my next year holds.

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