Here are five reasons why the alpha male is the man for you!
1. Challenge Ready
Alpha males, of both the human and animal variety, are not quick to avert their eye's gaze as "beta" or other less dominant males are prone to do. Dog owners, for example, will often "stare down" their dogs in order to prove dominance while training them. In this case, expect your Alpha man to stand up for you and the people he loves.
2. He's resilient
Alpha males are persistent. They know what they want—and they work hard to get it. We aim to please, and we aim to be successful in life. Whatever you want, we work to make you happy. This is good news for you and your potential alpha male boyfriend. Happiness is not the opposite of depression, resilience is. Bouncing back from rejection and overcoming difficulties are much easier for us alpha males because with a positive belief that one can and will, in fact, get over a hurdle and even thrive in the process of doing great things.
In a sense, we can take rejection well, and most often we can take criticism very well – Don’t be afraid to let your Alpha man know that you don’t like something. Like I said, we want to make you happy!
3. We are optimistic.
We want to inspire, we work to be successful, and so we always see the good in things. One of the key things to resilience is having an optimistic outlook on life. This is really good news for alpha males, as research shows that optimistic people typically are more successful, better rewarding. This is also good news for those who date alpha males, as studies show that not only is optimism contagious but that having an optimistic spouse can help you stay healthy as you age. Therefore, your relationship prospers. e are optimistic. We live for the applause!
4. We are outgoing.
Think of the typical alpha male in a social setting. Chances are he's the one working the room, laughing and joking, unafraid to approach a woman who strikes his fancy. Alpha males are usually outgoing, and the good news for you dating one is that extroverted people—that is, people who draw their energy from being around other people often feel happier. So meeting the parental isn’t that hard for us, and swooning is our blood. True happiness tends to spread. Not only will you have a guy who’s able to hold his own at your work, get-together, and meeting the parents isn't really that hard for us. We love a challenge.
5. We are emotional too.
Don't assume your Alpha male is as cold as his demeanor. Although we exert control in every situation possible, we still get hurt by things that mean the most to us.
