Have you always been "the good girl," you know, quiet, shy and never get into any trouble? The girl that everyone feels like they can talk or vent to because not only is the advice good, but they know what's said won’t be repeated. You're the girl who's loyal and will always be there for any and everybody. Being the good girl is great when it comes to friendships, but when it comes to relationships, it seems like guys only want the bad girls. Bad has always been a synonym for sexy, such as, "Damn. She's Bad." Bad can also be associated with excitement, while good is associated with predictable. If you’re a so-called "good girl," never change for a man because you will always win in the end, but I am going to give you 5 reasons why men don't always choose the good girl first.
1. Goodies aren't given up easily.
Being a good girl is also associated with being a prude, but this is not always true. Good girls enjoy sex, too; they just don't flaunt it to the world. If you want to have sex with her, you have to go above and beyond because she's not going to just give it to any and everybody.
2. Boring.
People think because you’re the good girl, you never go out and have fun. Good girls enjoy going out and partying too, but most prefer to stay home. You never know, you could be passing up the good girl with the goofiest personality for the bad girl who's bland because you think she's boring.
3. It's a challenge.
Guys are competitive. They want to win everything. Bad girls play hard to get and offer a challenge which is appealing to men. What guys fail to realize is that the good girls are the greater challenge, and they are usually harder to get. They're strong and smart, so to get them, you have to know their worth, prove your value and do something most men can't do: be a good man.
4. No fun.
Guys want the dramatic, sexually free, rebellious party goer, but bad girls only bring temporary excitement. Good girls are just as exciting, but without the drama that bad girls bring to the table. It's all about personality, and being a good girl doesn't mean she's not outgoing and/or adventurous.
5. Bad in bed.
People think bad girls sleep around (not always true), so they are better in bed because they have more experience. Just because a girl is good doesn't mean she is bad in bed. She is probably just as open and sexually fluent as the bad girl. Guys, if you’re with a good girl and she's bad in bed, teach her instead of making her feel insecure about something she's not an expert in.
