My generation never ceases to amaze me. The logic of having a crazy signification other is mind blowing to me. We've all heard the phrase "I'm crazy." I've heard guys claim they want a crazy girl all the time. Like excuse me, when and how did that become a thing? Why is it a thing, more importantly?

I don't find it hard to believe it has to do with sex. I would hope guys have a little more structure to their selves. After asking around, some guys say they like having a female who will snap on them. They like seeing how a girl will react when it comes to keeping her man. A girlfriend who refuses to let her boyfriend have freedom or friends. A female who can't seem to control her emotions? They find that attractive? It's an ego booster. To have a girl obsess over you must be exciting. A very large amount of dopamine must be released, at least that's my scientific reasoning.

I'm sorry ladies but this is a trend/phase that needs to end. Why are we allowing men to control us? Why give them the power to take us out of our character? I believe there's a difference between keeping your boyfriend on track versus being insane. I understand we are naturally territorial and want to protect our own. BUT there are limits. push your guy to be better than he can be. Motivate him to complete his goals and follow his dreams. Be his number one supporter and fan. NOT his stalker who demands to know his every move.

Trust should be a key factor in all relationships. Naturally there will be other females who will admire your guy. You can't control that. You should however be secure in your relationship that your guy isn't fazed by the attention. Nor should you. I mean how does one stop another from thinking some one is cute or attractive? You can't. I completely understand that fine line of respect. But let's not get too crazy.

Times are getting out of hand. I blame media, they promote the crazy girlfriend. How many movies do we see that portray women has crazy and obsessive? Thank Lifetime for that. The craziness and jealousy has become so extreme, females are causing harm to their selves and others.

At the end of the day, ladies don't lose your sanity over a guy. If you're not strong in your faith in him or yourself, then take a minute and get yourself together.