I was raised in a different way than most. Ever since I can remember, I was being taught to be observant and to be extra careful. Not only were my parents aware of the dangers that a normal child faced, but they also knew that I could be targeted because of my father's career. At times it could be scary, and sometimes I still worry, but I will be forever grateful for the way I grew up. It has made me more aware of what goes on around me, and it gave me the best family I could ask for.
1. The media is the enemy.
Especially now, there seems to be nothing but hate for the men and women in blue on the news and on the internet. I cannot even log on to Facebook without feeling a huge lack of gratitude and support for these selfless people. Only on special occasions do the police get any decent recognition. It is expected that they protect and serve without thanks, and they are okay with that. It is, however, heartbreaking to see the media twist a story so far as to ruin an officer's life who was only trying to serve the very people who tear them down.
2. There are constant reminders that my family is in danger.
Not only am I aware that my blood family could be targeted, but my father's brothers and sisters all around the country are put in difficult and devastating situations every day. Seeing the horrible news stories of officers being killed or beaten or targeted breaks my heart, and when it happens closer to home...the pain is indescribable. There is nothing worse than seeing the strongest men and women in your life suffer from a loss.
3. I worry about unusual situations.
Most people my age, even women, do not worry about their surroundings as I do. Many women are concerned about walking alone at night, but I try my best to always be prepared for a dangerous situation. I observe people in my surroundings, and I can recognize gang members and symbols. When eating at a restaurant, I always try to sit with my back facing the wall so that I can see my surroundings. I do these things because I know the reality that not all people are looking to do good.
4. Authority should be respected, not feared.
Many people have issues with authority because they are scared of it. I have grown up learning to always respect authority figures, whether they are my parents, professors, police officers, or whoever it may be. I also have first-hand experience that police officers are not scary at all. They are usually well trained in defending the public and themselves, but outside of work they are normal, funny, and amazing people.
5. I understand that family does not end with blood.
It's not like every officer even gets along with one another, but they all do their best to have each other's backs whether they agree or not. Police officers stand behind each other and each others' families and would give their lives for each other. (Although, I know they risk their lives every day for people they have not met before.)
