Makes your needs a priority.
You put too many people before you. Constantly make sure everyone around you has what they need. Entertain people you surround yourself with. People depend on you for them to succeed. Your own needs get pushed aside since it is so time-consuming. Help yourself by limiting the resources you share with others.
Dependent people run to you.
Whether they need your class notes, a ride, or money you are the go to. These needy people are drawn to you. You are their support system, but you never signed up for this. These people drain your resources until you have nothing left with no care in the world since it does not affect them. They will never offer up their own resources if you need help. You must create boundaries. Make it clear to others that you cannot be responsible for anyone other than yourself.
You want to please everyone so no one will reject you.
You need to be honest with yourself. You are not the only nice person in the world and are easily replaceable to people who prey on others. You make yourself valuable, so you do not get left behind. Make sure you are truly appreciated by the people in your life.
People take you for granted.
People disrespect you. People see your kindness as a weakness and walk all over you. Take a stand and make sure people are respectful forwards you. You are an empowered person who will flourish. You cannot surround yourself with people who will stunt your growth.
Stop caring so much about everyone else and focus on yourself.
