We have all had a moment where a phone has interrupted a conversation, a lovely dinner, or important event. The scenario could be with a close friend or a stranger that has struck up a conversation. We may even be the offender, or the victim, in any of these events. Regardless, I am sure we can all agree having that one person with eyes glued to their phone is aggravating. That is just to say the least.
Smart phones have caused something of a pandemic with all groups of people, not only the current generation of young adults and children. I have seen adults pull the same thing while bashing others for doing exactly as they do. I admit I am even guilty of doing this at times. My phone will magically appear in my hands before I even notice my actions.
Our phones have wormed into our brain in a subtle way. People often feel awkward without their smartphone in a pocket or straight up in their hands. They are like a pacifier for social anxiety. Someone brings up a touchy subject? Simply ignore it and pull out your phone to look at some pictures of cats, or text others at the table to discuss how awkward that comment was in private.
These devices have given their users an easy scape-goat, and people are eager to embrace it. I mean, who wouldn't want to play on their phone instead of listening to the droning conversations around them? Especially if it's a situation they didn't want to be around in the first place. But hasn't it gotten a little bit out of hand?
I noticed at the veterinarian the other day, while in the examination room, there was a "no cell phone" sign posted on the wall. This means that someone had literally been on their phone so much while getting their beloved pet examined it had caused problems. Many people consider their pets to be part of their family; much more than just simply an animal. If your child or family member was being examined for something worrisome, would you let yourself be distracted by your phone?
In the end, to each their own. I am sure you have many valid reasons to be on your phone in any number of situations. But being distracted while someone is conveying important information is not only disrespectful, but you may be missing many important points as well. Not having your phone out is a good habit to get into. If you think it would be distracting to have your phone out when you are talking to someone, it is most likely distracting if you do it was well. Courtesy goes a long way, especially with phone conduct.
